It's a rule of nature that every person would experience both favors and adversities in life. And every person has a different style to celebrate favors and deal with adversities. However intelligent involvement in experiencing challenging situations promotes a person to make better choices for the future. Nevertheless, you probably may not always be right in making correct choices during such nerve-testing situations.

In some way making these blurred kind of choices may be due to lack of positivity in your past experience of adversities and reasonable approach towards them to learn from. Which in turn may, probably, further worsen such unwanted situations and produce undesirable consequences which you might be unable to tolerate. Although major events in life are predestined, you can cultivate winning situations in life based on a clear sense of choice and judgment.

Man has been gifted with mind and intellect. Which develop resultant subjective human traits either bad or good. All of which depends on his genius. These qualities originate from a man's perception about various life's encounters, his way of thinking and analytical approach towards the encounters, and his emotions and mode of embracing such encounters.

In order to have a check on your nerves during such unfriendly scenarios the foremost thing you require to do is to accept the adversity. Adversities which you encounter un-expectedly in life may discourage you, however if you maintain a positive mental approach through focusing on the bright side of what has happened, then you can set yourself on the right way forward. On the other hand if you are awaiting some results as planned, you must not overlook the dark side of the story too. Which makes it far easier to deal with undesirable situations.

Having a negating attitude and getting obsessed with perfectionism during an adversity does not mean quality and standard. It's rather a psychological malady which pushes you towards the back-seat in life. Man has never been perfect. Plus, there is always room for improvement. Moreover God sometimes puts human on the test of controlling his nerves during adversities. And it's the willingness to endurance in times of such adverse situations that faith is developed in God. During such opportunities any suffered individual can realize times of growth, and chances to improve humble traits for success.

It's during the times of sufferings that your entire nature is developed. What you need to do during sufferings is to anaylze further potential risk factors of the situation thoroughly. Once you effectively evaluate the entire situation what you end up with, is to do your best for the betterment of the suffered ones either for yourself or for your loved ones. Not just you can help ease your negativity in this way, you can also help and prove your individuality for the support of your loved ones, using this strategy of making the situation better. Because its not about what happens to you in life, rather it's all about how you experience the happening and how you go ahead.

For the positive way forward and to strengthen your character its during the times of sufferings that you can make the best use of your strengths and work on your weaknesses. Adversities are moments where you find scope for your strengths to apply and build your stamina. Such moments are the sites where your intuition develops, and your power of determination and faith in yourself take roots.

In short, Intelligent experience of adversities motivates you to celebrate your life. Rather than criticizing yourself and blaming your destiny, it gives you the heartly strength to embrace your sufferings. And makes you able to use these sufferings as subjective drives for improvement. In this way you will assimilate both minor and major wins after experiencing adversities and secure such wins as a classic standard of your life. Which will develop into a powerful amazing habit of progress and success over-time if upheld with this rythm.