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Post Leading Life With Your Own Rules

For a better part of feeling righteous, blessed, confident and self-certified in life it is necessary to embody life with some unwritten personal rules. However such self-generated rules must be within natural restrictions which must not conflict with the balance of nature.

Human beings have naturally been alloted with an inherent right to the freedom of thought. A right, which is literally and understandably for peace, and contextually mild and unirritating. In reality human nature has been designed to promote good and shun evil and that is the base of the right to the freedom of thought. However the turmoil in the present world is negligence of both public and private survival, violation of the inbred right to the freedom of thought, and odd to the balance of nature which has replaced harmony and peace in life unavoidably.

In order to restore the lost harmony and peace in life everyone needs to redefine himself. Same like the DNA , fingerprints and other unique features which charatisize an individual, it is critical for each individual to realize and prove his individuality on both public and private level. Same like the attempts of each person to expedite in personal-capacity-oriented aspects of life like education, career and physical excellence etc, It is also mandatory to formulate life with personal rules to shine through. Which is the only way to restore harmony and peace in life both on public and private level. Moreover as man has to live in society, hence such rules must take into consideration the welfare of others. Such rules must not disturb and overpower those with whom a person has to spend and complete his supported-by-others life in society. If a person becomes cocky & arrogant claiming self-assurance of his character with himself without taking into consideration the care of others, such type of disposition is what obstructs a man"s way to happiness. Which makes the man unyielding and aloof from humanity which is not acceptable to God. Such abstinence is a cause of oppression and depression rather than progression in life.

To have progressiveness in life working on the most intimate passion is compulsory, along with focusing on the journey, gaining experience and focusing on the end goals to stay motivated. Which lead to self-discovery connecting you to your elated potential.

In case of dealing with others you need to decode yourself to others on your own terms of polite words and civilized actions during interactions. Moreover you should carefully lead-in before others rush into defining you and utilizing you to their advantage. However, here comes two versions of interaction in mind. One is your utilization as a human resource benefiting from your skills and talent according to your choice. Whence you can treat and humanize others about the way you want to be treated yourself. This way you get involved in the life of others, taking control of your relationship and enhancing your credit in their minds. It is the way to earn dignity for yourself, and to feel confidence and staying assured with your own social life.

Second version of interaction is the taking of advantage by others from your availability in an unfavourable way . Which may be opposite to your choice and possibly because of your reticence leading to cultivate disharmony and violate the right to the freedom of living peacefully. This is the place where you need to prove your individuality on your own terms.

To defend and authorize your individuality with autonomy, developing some features in life are important. Like a sharpened sense of right and wrong, witty choices, conducive priorities, and cultivating overall goodness in life through believing in yourself, building dreams, adaptive mentality, flexibility in personal nature, giving appropriate importance to life conditions and unlocking your true potentiality. These are such some of the many means which involve you in life practically in a much better way giving shape to and formulating your life.

Such ruling of life encompassing progressiveness, social interactions, and availing autonomy help you in giving momentum to your survival, preparing you for life challenges with a developed sense of punctuality, constructing your focus on life matters, making toil easy for you , enhancing your chances to create opportunities for yourself to succeed in life , improving your risk-taking capacity to reach your objectives in life and developing solidity in your personality.

This way you find essence to your entire life, living effectively with a developed sense and capacity of restoring harmony and peace in life. Which makes you able to feel righteous, blessed, confident and self-certified in life with your own ruling.
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