i agree with Raz to an extent
friendship requests are pointless,you dont make friends just like that
private msgs are ok ,provided you dont start msging every tom,dick and harry.Having fun is not bad but be a bit discreet.the advantage is that you dont get useless threads,private msgs absorb that extra energy
So I agree to Vivre sa vie sans regret to an extent as well
@ all above me in this thread
its nice that you brought this thing up,people using the new features should use them in light of what you ppl have written.I think admn should let things take their course and let responsibiity permeate members by free will rather than forcing some kind of sanctions on msgs.frnship requests etc etc