Quote:
Originally Posted by Farrah Zafar
"Forget,forgive and accept people as they are"
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to forget is a blessing
to forgive is a sign of high character
and one should learn to accept things as they are
to make up situations which suits onez stand is not a reasonable approach.
to be logical everytime is very illogical.
consider a case.
sometimes we need to be sympathetic and sometimes objective during listening to the speaker.but to judge where to be sympathetic or objective is a decision that rests with the listener.
women when speak or listen naturally are more dominated by sympathy(this is by no means an attempt to declare women as illogical) so when a wife to her husband at 1 am says that she is feeling pain in her head she wants sympathies,love affection of her husband whereas men who are more objective(this is by no means an attempt to declare men as emotionless etc) would say,"ok we ill get you checked by a doctor in the morning".this is a wrong answer.that man was needed to be sympathetic(which to you is illogical) during listening and replying to her wife.this imbalance between sympathetic(illogical) and objective(logical) listening and replying is often the very cause of misunderstanding between husbands and wives.
now coming to the original topic different people have different priorities in life.some favour money some love but apparently money is dominant over love.girls now a days have become very pragmetic in their approach in choosing their life partner.but still money is nothing as compared to love.i have seen people suffering because of their poor financial condition and people suffering due to absence of love in their lives.and the ones without love are in more pain(this is how i look at it).love is also a commodity(which we need in our life and without which life is as difficult as without money) as money is.