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18.Arguments/Attacks


  • respond in kind


If thou fearest treachery from any group, throw back (their covenant) to them, (so as to be) on equal terms: for Allah loveth not the treacherous.(8:58)


  • being patient is far better


And if ye do catch them out, catch them out no worse than they catch you out: But if ye show patience, that is indeed the best (course) for those who are patient. (16:126)

(After Muhammad SallAllahu 'Alaihi wa Aalihi wa Sallam saw how Hamzah's body had been mutilated he wanted to mutilate 30 Qurayshi dead. 16:126 was the injunction against that.)


  • leave, wishing those being left peace


And the servants of ((Allah)) Most Gracious are those who walk on the earth in humility, and when the ignorant address them, they say, "Peace!"; (25:63)


And when they hear vain talk, they turn away therefrom and say: "To us our deeds, and to you yours; peace be to you: we seek not the ignorant." (28:55)



  • respond with something better

Nor can goodness and Evil be equal. Repel (Evil) with what is better: Then will he between whom and thee was hatred become as it were thy friend and intimate! (41:34)



  • those slandered should provide charity for the "erring ones"


Let not those among you who are endued with grace and amplitude of means resolve by oath against helping their kinsmen, those in want, and those who have left their homes in Allah.s cause: let them forgive and overlook, do you not wish that Allah should forgive you? For Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful. (24:22)


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