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Originally Posted by ursula
I simply say its cognitive dissonance, or rationalization.
Or in very very very simple words" angoor ghatte hain".
I'm not psychologist but my study suggested the same idea, don't worry, its quite natural.After all "human need some reasons to justify the things that he doesn't achieve."
Uffff!
Thanks to almighty Allah, somebody is also thinking like that of mind.Otherwise, ghar wale mjhe "pagal" kahte Han k kitabun ne iss ka damagh khrab kr dya.  i
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I get your rationalization argument but how are you referring it with proverb, Angoor khatte hain?
Anyhow, i suffer the same. In fact, i have now stopped talking in my home except replying to their questions in simple yes or no or to the point answer.
But the problem is that one cannot stay entirely aloof from one's family since one is related with them since birth time and then sometimes one do shares a light moment and then the time comes when i start sounding nonsense to them.
But its ok, because at the end i know that i am right. Lekin kabhi kabhi bhand maar bhi deta hoon
Yours sincerely