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friends I face lot of rejection in life due to css when families come to meet us for my matrimonial proposals they reject me when we say doing preparation of css.my parents are worried for me and they face lot of rejection due to css now we decide we hide css and don't say about any thing on css...my age is passes I spend many years on css with two attempt.

[QUOTE=Maria The Chemist;1056503]friends I face lot of rejection in life due to css when families come to meet us for my matrimonial proposals they reject me when we say doing preparation of css.my parents are worried for me and they face lot of rejection due to css now we decide we hide css and don't say about any thing on css...my age is passes I spend many years on css with two attempt.[/QUOTE]

Have u attempted css twice or are you going to attempt it twice ? :roll

[QUOTE=Assasin;1056516]Have u attempted css twice or are you going to attempt it twice ? :roll[/QUOTE]
no of attempt is not issue .css become reason of rejection for me thatswhy I am worried

[QUOTE=Maria The Chemist;1056546]no of attempt is not issue .css become reason of rejection for me thatswhy I am worried[/QUOTE]

calm down .Everyone faces rejections in life one way or the other .Rejection in matrimonial proposals is not the matter of life and death .Every problem has a solution .Dnt be in hurry .

Now lets get to your problem .

First of all , i am unable to give you concrete suggestions since i do not know the exact situation (i mean every variable ) in which you are ,but let me tell u one thing ,i doubt that CSS is the main cause of your rejections .A basic cause of a rejection is when a proposing family does not find the type of person they are looking for .Now analyze your situation and you will find the answers .

Moreover ,There is no need to bring up CSS in such matters ..(Work for it in silence and let the world know when u become a CSP but dnt showoff when you are preparing for it) .


A reason for your rejections might be that you havnt find the right person yet .Most importantly ,Your parents know whats best for you .Ask for their advice and analyze it .Then do as you deem right.
A side note : Have faith in ALLAH and dont lose hope .May be its not the right time .Focus on CSS ,make your future and things will come your way at the right moment Inshallah .

Excuse my harsh words ,if u find any.

Good luck

[QUOTE=Assasin;1056569]calm down .Everyone faces rejections in life one way or the other .Rejection in matrimonial proposals is not the matter of life and death .Every problem has a solution .Dnt be in hurry .

Now lets get to your problem .

First of all , i am unable to give you concrete suggestions since i do not know the exact situation (i mean every variable ) in which you are ,but let me tell u one thing ,i doubt that CSS is the main cause of your rejections .A basic cause of a rejection is when a proposing family does not find the type of person they are looking for .Now analyze your situation and you will find the answers .

Moreover ,There is no need to bring up CSS in such matters ..(Work for it in silence and let the world know when u become a CSP but dnt showoff when you are preparing for it) .


A reason for your rejections might be that you havnt find the right person yet .Most importantly ,Your parents know whats best for you .Ask for their advice and analyze it .Then do as you deem right.
A side note : Have faith in ALLAH and dont lose hope .May be its not the right time .Focus on CSS ,make your future and things will come your way at the right moment Inshallah .

Excuse my harsh words ,if u find any.

Good luck[/QUOTE]
I will discuss u on mail if u mail me
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[QUOTE=Maria The Chemist;1056602]I will discuss u on mail if u mail me
ur profile is not shown for contact[/QUOTE]

ok