I feel that I can't do CSS

[Dasht-e-tanhai]

Slam, all dear members, here i would like to share a bitter trauma which i am undergoing now a days. I have done my LLB and now aspiring to CSS .Truelly speaking i have a craze for CSS i have sacrificed a lot for CSS. But still i am not in a position to arrange things in a apple pie order. Whenever i see a guy well-suited and educated i feel that i am inferior to him you know i am suffering from inferiority complex which continue to haunt me day and night sometimes i feel that i can't do CSS and wasting my time and i should be doing something else because of this fickle mindset i am not able to concentrate on my study I humbly request all seniors to help me get out of this mess

[unsolved_Mystery]

This is the primary thing you have to get over at your earliest.
Try to find out the root cause. What does actuate you to think so?
Any bitter past experience? or like me you are not good looking?
Build your self-confidence boost your self-esteem. Try to change your thoughts, the way you think negative.
Any deficiency (in case) you have, dont blame it to yourself. Convince yourself that nobody is perfect and everybody has their own strengths and weaknesses. Try to make yourself realize that you are unique and gifted person who has many good qualities. It'll make you love yourslef, not laud . Change is a big demand. If you think you have to change, then do it. good luck

[INNOVATIVE]

this is only your anxiety.in css there is no such things of superiority and inferiority exist as many well groomed students failed on the part of their fate and those having relatively low academics background remain succeeded to hit the nail.css needs target study i.e there is a target to be acheived and once you set the target it becomes easy to acheive it.
dont confuse youself with these thinkings plus theer is no need to compare youself with others as it si useless. focus youself on your studies.do try to overcome this problem by offering prayers and have faith in God.whatever will be done will be good.hope you are getting.cheers

[Rixwan]

use this your so called "inferiority complex" as challenge and give yourself a target that if that suited booted person can achieve this thing than why not me...he is as same as me when entered in this world..than what a big deal...if that person achieved this than i can achieve that too.....

other than this...have firm believe in Allah and your ownself..that whatever you got and will get is because of your hard work...and if you do more work hard you will get more..

and in last offer prayers regularly...and pray for your self...

[shoaib35]

hard work is key to success .Dont b affraid trust in allah never meet the persons who dishearted you try to join good company 4 css. if css is your aim in life then start working hard from now on words and inshallah one day you will be the future bureaucrate and also pray for me

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dont fear for facing failure in the first attempt,because even the successful math starts with "ZERO"

[Farrah Zafar]

Originally Posted by Dasht-e-tanhai

Slam, all dear members, here i would like to share a bitter trauma which i am undergoing now a days. I have done my LLB and now aspiring to CSS .Truelly speaking i have a craze for CSS i have sacrificed a lot for CSS. But still i am not in a position to arrange things in a apple pie order. Whenever i see a guy well-suited and educated i feel that i am inferior to him you know i am suffering from inferiority complex which continue to haunt me day and night sometimes i feel that i can't do CSS and wasting my time and i should be doing something else because of this fickle mindset i am not able to concentrate on my study I humbly request all seniors to help me get out of this mess

I know a girl who cleared written test while living in a village with no academy and with no approach at all.She is an example for all those who think that they can't do anything because they have no approach or resources.pehli baat tou ye zehn se nikal do k you are inferior to anyone.You have your own talents which no one can ever grab.Log zero se shuru hotay hain aur top pe ja pohanchtay hain,kis waja se?mehnat se.I know about such people who studied in taat-bori school but now they are on such posts that people quote them as an example.
akeli betho sakoon se,ankhen band karo aur khud se kaho 10 baar "Mein ksii se kamm nae,mein jo chahun ker sakti hun"
phir look at your parents then think A day will come insha Allah when they will feel proud on me.
Allah k baad khud pe yaqeen rakho,sab kuch ker sakti ho.

ay jazba e dil gar mein chahun her cheez muqabil aa jaye,
manzil k liye do gaam chaloon aur samnay manzil aa jaye..

[khuhro]

Originally Posted by Dasht-e-tanhai

Slam, all dear members, here i would like to share a bitter trauma which i am undergoing now a days. I have done my LLB and now aspiring to CSS .Truelly speaking i have a craze for CSS i have sacrificed a lot for CSS. But still i am not in a position to arrange things in a apple pie order. Whenever i see a guy well-suited and educated i feel that i am inferior to him you know i am suffering from inferiority complex which continue to haunt me day and night sometimes i feel that i can't do CSS and wasting my time and i should be doing something else because of this fickle mindset i am not able to concentrate on my study I humbly request all seniors to help me get out of this mess

I know what are you talking about.... to get out of this, just do one thing....

take a peper, write down your problems (if any) then find out why are you stuck in that. then write down what are the possible ways you can do by yourself to get out from them. without any help others.

then write, what are your abilities, such as qualifications and other acheivments. and how many peoples are equal to your qualifications and abilities, and how much peoples are above you (from your friends and known personalities within your curstances. not anyone else)...

then find out that are you, in average, medium or superior level at your curmstances hopefully you will find yourself amoungs the best ones.

for further assistance you can contact me over my personal e-mail ID is mentioned in my profile. contact me over there. and we can talk freely over that medium. and i thought i am able to help you in this case...

BEST OF LUCK...

[H. R. Akhunzada]

@Dasht-e-tanhai, to be very honest very few of the very few who appear are even sure they'll get through. Even among the few that give the papers i think only 30% of the total come with more than 4-5 months preparation.
If you ask me i never even thought I'd get through. I needed alot of encouragement because taking the first plunge is the hardest, Alhamdullilah i made it (2nd attempt). Many feel under confident but there is this one time when you get that feeling that you'll pass even if that feeling is just for a brief moment, thats all you need to let you know that its time to give it a try.
Realistically it gets on ones nerves waiting for the result the anticipation, the apprehension but don't let that get to your head. A first cousin of mine was so under confident that he would look for excuses not to give the exam. When he finally gave it he succeeded the second time and got into DMG. Even before the final allocation he was unsure he could even make it to Postals Group (his last preference). You have 3 chances to make this work... I honestly give you the thumbs up.... Ask Allah Ta'ala to give you the strength. InshaaALLAH you'ss succeed.
Regards,

p.s: just look at the you post you've written. Its way better than what a lot of people would write, thats a positive point you can work on.

[J.Zaib]

Originally Posted by Dasht-e-tanhai

i feel that i am inferior to him you know i am suffering from inferiority complex which continue to haunt me day and night sometimes i feel that i can't do CSS and wasting my time and

Infact, if you will think so then take my words that you are right & you will not be able to do CSS. Do something else.
If you want to do CSS then you have to leave all these things, all such thoughts,,,,,
Just think once that what do you want to do & stick to that. Work hard & leave the rest to ALLAH. You have to get rid of this inferiority complex and you have to make yourself strong enough to face all the realities. If you will work hard then nothing is there to stop you...

[sumia]

Dear...reason of inferiority complex is always " lack of self worth"...if you dont work on it ....it would aggravate....coz when you dont feel good about yourself ...you will not be able to do anything really....so the first step is ..... learn to appreciate yourself,your achievements ....others cant really do much....tell yourself inferiority complex should not be a part of yourself,it is evil...it is your biggest enemy dear...get rid ov it....or rahi bat css ki...if you work hard there is no reason that you cant do it....ap ka problem isnt ...that css is difficult...aapka problem to apki apni self me he....just work on that first n everything will be easy for you....!