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Old Thursday, December 01, 2016
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In order to succeed your desire for success should be greater than your fear of failure....
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Found this forum to share my grief. I am graduate of Best business school of Kpk now pursuing higher education in Economics age 26 . Throughout my education career I was an average student with low mental ability. At the age of 20 when I started my university life after FSc I decided for CSS and made it a goal. I started collecting books,notes and start meeting with those who made through this exam.I had alot of passion and motivation in my life in those days.I was in circle with CSPs who guided and their life style pre-tranning and post-tranning geared more and motivation was gaining momentum day by day. I was all a CSS officer in mind. No action only thinking. Time passes now it is 2016 I am not able to get rid from this exam even I not appeared. Every year I postpone this exam because I know I cant handle pressure, I cant attempt paper properly I think I am an average student I cant make it through.I have fear of failure, I am giving up. Every human coming front like friends, family strangers suggest me to appear in CSS I dont know why the think that I will clear this exam. Sometime I feel I have to appear may be I destine to pass because all these are indication that I should work for it. My CSS officer friends said we will discontinue relation if you not make it. I also in distress that if I not appear or pass it I will never forgive myself in future that I never tried to work hard and appeared. 1st I too was running for fame what CSS give to you but now I dont need fame. I just like only the nature of CSS Job like you cannot stick to one department. You can also travel the world by joining FSP which was my utmost desire. Now all shattered in pieces. I did CSS in mind only. from 2011 to 2016 journey of of thinking, collecting books, making CSPs was a good journey LOL. So here suming up I failed I quit.Any saner person reading this can suggest some good advise or good words after reading this hope it would not waste your time.
Brother you actually accepted defeat in your mind when in real if you try there are chances of clearing the exam, but if you wouldn't give a try you will never achieve.

there is another benefit of css preparation, that is your knowledge and attitude will increase gradually by time and even if you fail css, you can always try other jobs announced by govt departments. there 100 marks MCQ written tests are just like a stream and Css preparation is an ocean, when you will learn to swim in ocean, stream would be then a piece of cake for you so eventually INSHA'ALLAH you, me and all of us whom are aspiring for something will get there where we want to be.. Aim for the moon, if you miss you may hit a star.
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Dear brother

I think that youre not failed, but temporarily facing mental block. you can read about the concept online.

in our age, i dont think anyone can be judged as failure or success. the successful are those who are remembered positively long after they have left us for the next world. we should try to be good humans above all.

remember not all times our plans work for us, Allah (SWT) has better plans for us. I wish you best of luck and success and I request you to use the meantime to give a few KPSC/other commission tests for various jobs - just giving the test will overcome your fear. Use your time to learn more, read, do free online courses, develop yourself as a good human, use youtube.

Long journey is ahead - not to despair, I leave you with this image only.

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I would like to help you regain hope and optimism. Let's have a chat and we can sort things out

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"Why do we fall sir? So that we can learn to pick ourselves up."
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Till the age of 30 you have 3 chance in your hand if you don't take these chance then it'll also be wasted so better is that to take chance and give the exams. If you failed then at-least you did not have any guilt in your life to didn't take your chance else you always feel guilty to not utilize these chance
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A man who quits is the one who fails...
Have faith in yourself and try again.
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