I'd like to request my seniors to tell me about the way a civil servant,esp a female,can manage her life if she is married......As per the schedule given by one of my kind seniors,its tough to be a day scholar,or to do daily outback if the family resides at the distance of 50 miles......what should one do then? would it be wise to get married before CTP starts?
should the option of marriage after CTP+STP be considered?

Good Question!!!

I have not experienced this thing but as per me, it does not matter if you get married before CTP.

Well, my seniors here will guide you better!!

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Your question just seems exact feelings of coming up (female) CSP’s , well a question hit me, currently how many married female CSP are attached with the forum for further guidance? I think their ratio is quite gloomy. Female CSP can guide new comers the possible hurdles and challenges in the way to career. I put my request to such a celebrity to guide and share experience.
Obviously, without support of family members it is impossible to be a career woman.

dear sis,
In my view, you should consider marrying after FPOE(Final Pass Out Exams) which are conducted after CTP and STP. You may see the results of last 5 years or so of FPOE to analyze the situation; many fail in FPOE in first attempt and loose seniority. Also, if one is unable to give proper time to her new family (i.e. husband & his family) soon after marriage its not considered very good in Pk. Also, to manage new borns(babies) during CTP STP & before FPOE is a mess...... what about when u'll go for study tours, attachments etc. ..... life'll become very hard to manage.
So to avoid this scenario, as per my suggestion, I strongly believe that you should consider marrying after FPOE. Decision rests with you as per your circumstances at present.

regards,
sincerely,
Noman !

Thanks, you exposed the actual situation, how much time will consume in CTP and STP approximately… just a rough idea…. It is little bit confuse for somebody to hold up till the FPOE. I also want to know about this exam too.

Thanx verymuch indeed for taking out time to reply my question...it really sounds logical

aoa!hope evry budy wl b fine enj life,i came acros this thread.thot it must b replied.wel i thnk after getting into academy v must only enj tht time make good frnds hv max fun.ctp as wel as stp shld b enj wid frnds there.then comz UT period.so one may marry tht time its best time tht can b utalized like tht wid good memories,as officer use to b free most of time wid no responsibilities!i dnt agree wid idea of marrying after FPoe,in civil service Stp as wel as Fpoe of Dmg only z very tough rest of groups need not to wory 4 tht..despite tht we hv done it wid good marks.thnx aamer

Well abt married life of female officer i would like to say it all dependz how much husband z acomodatv and caring!how much chemistry of both relates to each other.but final thing z tht if v c any female officer doing wel n field its understood her husband z behind her completely.thnx aamer

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Well, what if a female is already married with an infant? Is she allowed to leave the CTP/ STP premises after classes to attend to family or can the child be allowed to stay with her in the dorm for the whole tenure after taking some sort of special permission or otherwise? Surely, an infant cannot stay without his mother even if the god-forsaken husband can

If anybody knows any information regarding this, kindly let me know...

aoa!thtz special case and permission z required both n ctp as wel n stp and tht z given.there z nothing to worry 4 tht.,such officer can stay at home.thnx aamer khattak.

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salam ameer bahi.
i m m ali jadoon. i did bba honor major in (i.t) frm i m studies peshawar university.nw i m pursuing my mba one year major in finance. apart frm that i have done b.a(politcal science, law) and nw doing m.a political finance final year as private candiate.in addition,bahi i m ex neighbour of abid wazir frm fata ur course mate.as he did css in 2005.i think i have recalled ur memory.
futhermore, bahi i looking forward to appear in up comming css exam. bahi i need ur email adress or cell number in this regard. bahi ur kind support would be highly appricated.
wasalam
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