aoa everyone,
i have cleared the css 2009 with a 16 position in punjab alhamdolillah and hav given fsp as my first preference since it has always been my passion.but now i m hearing sum very depressing stuff abt fsp since i m married nd have a child.kindly condole me and show me the real pic
thanku

Well Saman.....its better you should try to approach some one in FPSC or in Establishment division as soon as possible before the final allocations so that dier might be some viable solution to your problem. Go to FPSC, try to get some link in FPSC. Hope you got my point behind my advise.

I dont think there is any need of being depressed in this matter. There are many females working in FSP, married and single, and are well-satisfied. If you have some personal problems, you should bring it to the notice of the concerned authorities and i am sure they will arrange a way out for you on humantarian ground. No worry plz.
PS.
I daily see one female with kids getting STP training at Aduit & Account Training Institute, Lahore as my office is located in the same campus. During classes, one maid look after the kids at the hostel and kids are very friendly with all the participants. So that should not be a issue at all.
Congrats on your success and best wishes for the future.

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for example??? what kind of depressing news are u hearing?

aoa,
i had heard that the divorce rates in fsp are very high since women hardly get any time and opportunity to stay with their families.family life suffers and the kids education gets disturbed.please comment ,Sir....
regards
saman abid chughtai

that can be said about any group in civil services. all females work hard in their respective fields and what about medical doctors and females working in banks; both are very tough and time consuming jobs.

How high? and who told you? Was it someone who works/worked in foreign office?

Lets see...........
Out of approximately 10000 candidates only about 300 get final allocation. It means 97% don't get allocated at all despite the fact that many of them have worked very hard may be even more than the candidates who got accepted.
But you not only appeared but had the privilege to stand in toppers. (18th overall, right?) I mean you weren't pessimist that only 3% get selected so you wont try.

You are a qualified CSP officer, so please be optimistic.

I remember some thing Martin Luther King has said at one place
"Even if i knew somehow that tomorrow the world would go into pieces, i would still plant my apple tree"

i don't think so...there are so many female Assistant Directors, Directors and above working in ministry, no one is divorced... In my batch there are 5... Well also it depends on what kind of life partner u get..is he accomodating or not.. so think hard and well before getting married ,thats what i can say...