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Someone failed CE, after result justification?

I don't know how you people are going to take my words. But, I am really thinking about this: after failing CE-2014, how would I justify my failure to everyone around? I don't know how would I make everyone understand, that I had this and that problems before and after exams, and this led to my failure. Everyone around would ask about my result. I don't know how would they think about me--maybe this, that I am incompetent and I can't ever pass this exam. Furthermore, I don't want to justify myself, nonetheless, there are some, whom I need to give justification. I need to take them in confidence that I will make it in my upcoming attempts. But here I am confused, that how would I do this. How would I take them in confidence?
Reply seriously without making fun out of this please, otherwise don't.

Why do you need to give justifications to anyone? Take it as a career option, not a matter of life and death. CSS is a very prestigious examination, however, failing in it does not mean that you are incompetent.

Problem to tb hoti hai jb kisi ko pta ho k fail hua hai banda, pher bhi unjaan ban k poochay k ap k result ka kia hua. Us se barh k jb koi muskara k poochay k yaar q fail hogaey?? ab kia jawab den. Ufff.
Allah Pak, hamain kamyab farma,
Lajpaal hmari laaj rakh le.
ameen

[QUOTE=The Shah Ends;762466]I don't know how you people are going to take my words. But, I am really thinking about this: after failing CE-2014, how would I justify my failure to everyone around? I don't know how would I make everyone understand, that I had this and that problems before and after exams, and this led to my failure. Everyone around would ask about my result. I don't know how would they think about me--maybe this, that I am incompetent and I can't ever pass this exam. Furthermore, I don't want to justify myself, nonetheless, there are some, whom I need to give justification. I need to take them in confidence that I will make it in my upcoming attempts. But here I am confused, that how would I do this. How would I take them in confidence?
Reply seriously without making fun out of this please, otherwise don't.[/QUOTE]
Bro, Hinas said right. Well, the trauma with the candidates of Competitive Exams is that they have always been trying to justify their study plan, their friends and relatives. i think if they qualify CSS, they are lucky. if they fail, they are the most luckiest. Now, everyone will ask justification from me about it. Some questions are not to be justified but to be left. So, leave others and their justifications with confident smile. Hope you understand !

First of all Don't believe that you will be fail. Insha Allah You will pass, secondly you are fighting for your career and for better life not for others. tell them that its my life don't need to interfere in my life if you failed tell them openly that Im failed, there is nothing special if you tell them about your exam while they will Not kill you :)

It,s very simple; don't try to justify yourself and DON'T underestimate yourself either.
Because His plans are better than ours we just can work hard, by sowing seeds He knows which fruit fits well.

You just reminded me of my father's words.Whenever I tried to justify my marks or failures,he used to say;

[B]Dunya ye dekhti hai k General ne jang jeeti ya haari....jeet jaye tou kuch batana nae parta....aur ager haar jaye tou koi Zakhm nae dekhta k kis bahaduri se larra !
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So dear,if you want to prove yourself,just try hard to win next time :bow

By the way,why are you expecting failure ? Napolean says,[B]Jisay haarnay ka khauf ho ga,wo zaroor haray ga[/B]

Aur ye tou aik talkh haqeeqat hai,

[B]Defeat is an orphan but victory has many Godfathers ![/B]

For your consolation,

[B]Ye baazi CSS ki baazi hai,jo chaho laga do darr kesa ?
Ger jeet gaye tou kia kehna,haaray bhi tou baazi maat nae ![/B]:vic:vic

[QUOTE=The Shah Ends;762466]I don't know how you people are going to take my words. But, I am really thinking about this: after failing CE-2014, how would I justify my failure to everyone around? I don't know how would I make everyone understand, that I had this and that problems before and after exams, and this led to my failure. Everyone around would ask about my result. I don't know how would they think about me--maybe this, that I am incompetent and I can't ever pass this exam. Furthermore, I don't want to justify myself, nonetheless, there are some, whom I need to give justification. I need to take them in confidence that I will make it in my upcoming attempts. But here I am confused, that how would I do this. How would I take them in confidence?
Reply seriously without making fun out of this please, otherwise don't.[/QUOTE]

[B]Dear, You should not expect failure. Please Allow positive feelings to invade your mind.

2.Remember- Life is 10 percent What happens to you And 90 percent how you respond to it.

3. You should have Plan B in life.

4. 36 to 40 thousand (Without Haram ki income) ki salary ki post keliye itne Anxiety theak nah. Try to explore new horizons.

Good Luck![/B]

[QUOTE=The Shah Ends;762466]I don't know how you people are going to take my words. But, I am really thinking about this: after failing CE-2014, how would I justify my failure to everyone around? I don't know how would I make everyone understand, that I had this and that problems before and after exams, and this led to my failure. Everyone around would ask about my result. I don't know how would they think about me--maybe this, that I am incompetent and I can't ever pass this exam. Furthermore, I don't want to justify myself, nonetheless, there are some, whom I need to give justification. I need to take them in confidence that I will make it in my upcoming attempts. But here I am confused, that how would I do this. How would I take them in confidence?
Reply seriously without making fun out of this please, otherwise don't.[/QUOTE]
Failure is the part of success simple, remember one thing if you haven't failed so haven't tried something new.

[QUOTE=hinas;762550]Why do you need to give justifications to anyone? Take it as a career option, not a matter of life and death. CSS is a very prestigious examination, however, failing in it does not mean that you are incompetent.[/QUOTE]
You understood me in a pretty good way. Why? Because you are an aspirant of CSS. But many are not, so they will not understand that easily. And I need to do so.

[QUOTE=azmatullah;762551]Problem to tb hoti hai jb kisi ko pta ho k fail hua hai banda, pher bhi unjaan ban k poochay k ap k result ka kia hua. Us se barh k jb koi muskara k poochay k yaar q fail hogaey?? ab kia jawab den. Ufff.
Allah Pak, hamain kamyab farma,
Lajpaal hmari laaj rakh le.
ameen[/QUOTE]
Brother! this is really scaring. And, Ameen for your dua. :)

[QUOTE=saqib ikramm;762552]Bro, Hinas said right. Well, the trauma with the candidates of Competitive Exams is that they have always been trying to justify their study plan, their friends and relatives. i think if they qualify CSS, they are lucky. if they fail, they are the most luckiest. Now, everyone will ask justification from me about it. Some questions are not to be justified but to be left. So, leave others and their justifications with confident smile. Hope you understand ![/QUOTE]
Bro you have rightly said about the trauma. We prepare for this difficult exam, we attempt it and then on failure we have to justify to the people. What an injustice.
I will try to have a confident smile on whatever happens. Thanks :)

[QUOTE=sincer khan;762567]First of all Don't believe that you will be fail. Insha Allah You will pass, secondly you are fighting for your career and for better life not for others. tell them that its my life don't need to interfere in my life if you failed tell them openly that Im failed, there is nothing special if you tell them about your exam while they will Not kill you :)[/QUOTE]
Thanks a lot bro for your optimistic post. One day I feel like I am passing but the next day my hopes turn upside down.

[QUOTE=kinza kazmi;762572]It,s very simple; don't try to justify yourself and DON'T underestimate yourself either.
Because His plans are better than ours we just can work hard, by sowing seeds He knows which fruit fits well.[/QUOTE]
Sis I need to justify myself, there is really a need. Otherwise, i would not have made a thread for this.
Yeah His plans are better for us. Pray for me at least once if you could.

[QUOTE=Farrah Zafar;762581]You just reminded me of my father's words.Whenever I tried to justify my marks or failures,he used to say;

[B]Dunya ye dekhti hai k General ne jang jeeti ya haari....jeet jaye tou kuch batana nae parta....aur ager haar jaye tou koi Zakhm nae dekhta k kis bahaduri se larra !
[/B]
So dear,if you want to prove yourself,just try hard to win next time :bow

By the way,why are you expecting failure ? Napolean says,[B]Jisay haarnay ka khauf ho ga,wo zaroor haray ga[/B]

Aur ye tou aik talkh haqeeqat hai,

[B]Defeat is an orphan but victory has many Godfathers ![/B]

For your consolation,

[B]Ye baazi CSS ki baazi hai,jo chaho laga do darr kesa ?
Ger jeet gaye tou kia kehna,haaray bhi tou baazi maat nae ![/B]:vic:vic[/QUOTE]
It's an honour for me that ''the Queen of Urdu literature'' replied to my post. :)
Sis your respected father's words are about the bitter reality of this whole system of humans.
I don't know sis but actually today I was feeling so low. Sometimes I feel that I will be passed but all of a sudden a negative thought makes its way into my mind. I think I am suffering from CSS phobia. :(
Thanks for your consolation. It delighted me. :) God bless you.
[QUOTE=Invincible;762596][B]Dear, You should not expect failure. Please Allow positive feelings to invade your mind.

2.Remember- Life is 10 percent What happens to you And 90 percent how you respond to it.

3. You should have Plan B in life.

4. 36 to 40 thousand (Without Haram ki income) ki salary ki post keliye itne Anxiety theak nah. Try to explore new horizons.

Good Luck![/B][/QUOTE]
Yes bro I am trying to think positive enough. For me, life is all about responding even if nothing happens. Responding is actually the most difficult task.
Yeah I have had a plan B, but that's almost gone. Now, whenever I think about other plans I feel like a useless being in this world.
Point 4 has nothing much to do with me, because I am doing it for the sake of passing this exam, just to prove my mettle here, not for livelihood.
PS: You always reply in a very organised way. :)

[QUOTE=Tehseen Baber;762600]Failure is the part of success simple, remember one thing if you haven't failed so haven't tried something new.[/QUOTE]
Very truly said, I strongly believe in failure as being a part of success. But my problem is: how would I justify it whenever I need to.

People who care about you , they keep caring irrespective of your failures.
They dont need your justifications. they support you in either case.

[QUOTE=pureapak;762649]People who care about you , they keep caring irrespective of your failures.
They dont need your justifications. they support you in either case.[/QUOTE]

Good point bro. And this would let me know about those who really care for me. Actually, I am trying to get out of all my negative thoughts regardless of what happens ultimately.

CSS-2014 was my last attempt. let see what happens. HE will justify me who has sent me with some purpose gradually

[QUOTE=saqib ikramm;762680]CSS-2014 was my last attempt. let see what happens. HE will justify me who has sent me with some purpose gradually[/QUOTE]

May Allah bless you with success in your this last attempt. Ameen :)

One should try to cross the hurdle of insecurity in order to win.

I failed, and told everyone the reasons for my failure. Well wishers tried to encourage me, and some friends-enemies in disguise- laugh at me. I passed. Again well-wishers expressed greet and the others felt jealousy. This is how life goes on.

[QUOTE=abbas khan 119;762756]I failed, and told everyone the reasons for my failure. Well wishers tried to encourage me, and some friends-enemies in disguise- laugh at me. I passed. Again well-wishers expressed greet and the others felt jealousy. This is how life goes on.[/QUOTE]

Simple when some one Discourage you and he becomes happy when you failed just ignore them and don't think about these peoples. Unhy Ghass b mat dalo:cr

i think there is no need of justifying any body about your failure.Your opponents wouldn't believe on explanations and your friends dont need any .Only you know how hard you have tried to get through.try to explore your faults inside.dont advertise them.People dont bother about them.Only your parents would care.
I have faced this situation last year.Dont let any ill thoughts flourish in your mind.I know words are not sufficient to explain the situation but in either case reality is reality.
Best best best of luck dear :)
Pray for all hard workers :)

well bro it is your last attempt .... one of my friend who did just simple graduation and after that roam (total FARAG RAHA:ph34r:) for 7 years and then prepare for 1 year for his only one attempt went for pakistan foreign office... its all depend on hard work and consistency with blessing of god...

[QUOTE=The Shah Ends;762466]I don't know how you people are going to take my words. But, I am really thinking about this: after failing CE-2014, how would I justify my failure to everyone around? I don't know how would I make everyone understand, that I had this and that problems before and after exams, and this led to my failure. Everyone around would ask about my result. I don't know how would they think about me--maybe this, that I am incompetent and I can't ever pass this exam. Furthermore, I don't want to justify myself, nonetheless, there are some, whom I need to give justification. I need to take them in confidence that I will make it in my upcoming attempts. But here I am confused, that how would I do this. How would I take them in confidence?
Reply seriously without making fun out of this please, otherwise don't.[/QUOTE]
If you fail CSS, that would not be the end of world. Its just another career, nothing more nothing less.

So just take it easy dear :)

Such a strange thread cant understand what is the reason behind it?

[QUOTE=Diplomatic;762723]One should try to cross the hurdle of insecurity in order to win.[/QUOTE]
True. May Allah help us all. Ameen

[QUOTE=abbas khan 119;762756]I failed, and told everyone the reasons for my failure. Well wishers tried to encourage me, and some friends-enemies in disguise- laugh at me. I passed. Again well-wishers expressed greet and the others felt jealousy. This is how life goes on.[/QUOTE]
So you have already faced that situation once.

[QUOTE=sincer khan;762765]Simple when some one Discourage you and he becomes happy when you failed just ignore them and don't think about these peoples. Unhy Ghass b mat dalo:cr[/QUOTE]
Bro kuch logon ko ghaas nahi daal saktay, elders k sath kya kuya jaye.
[QUOTE=futuristic;762766]i think there is no need of justifying any body about your failure.Your opponents wouldn't believe on explanations and your friends dont need any .Only you know how hard you have tried to get through.try to explore your faults inside.dont advertise them.People dont bother about them.Only your parents would care.
I have faced this situation last year.Dont let any ill thoughts flourish in your mind.I know words are not sufficient to explain the situation but in either case reality is reality.
Best best best of luck dear :)
Pray for all hard workers :)[/QUOTE]
Yes, you are absolutely right brother. Even if I try to justify my failure, they will not understand if they do not want to. I have thought not to justify anything unless need be. I will try to keep everything to myself only. Insha Allah.
PS: Thanks for the wishes. May Allah help us all. Ameen

[QUOTE=waaqar;762776]well bro it is your last attempt .... one of my friend who did just simple graduation and after that roam (total FARAG RAHA:ph34r:) for 7 years and then prepare for 1 year for his only one attempt went for pakistan foreign office... its all depend on hard work and consistency with blessing of god...[/QUOTE]
It was my first attempt bro.

[QUOTE=aminshah101;763185]If you fail CSS, that would not be the end of world. Its just another career, nothing more nothing less.

So just take it easy dear :)[/QUOTE]
Thanks a lot Sir. Actually, I was more worried about justifying my failure to everyone around.

[QUOTE=Raja Bahar;763254]Such a strange thread cant understand what is the reason behind it?[/QUOTE]
What makes you confuse Sir?
Reason: I was trying to find a way to justify my failure to everyone if I fail.

Don't make it a matter of life and death..its ok,GOD FORBID,if you fail css exam...If you have to excel in your life and to show your mettle,so remember one thing,if Allah closes one door,He opens another:))

Live and let live. This is your life. You shouldn't care what others think about you; your success or your failure.

Dear ! Here is my reply

[COLOR="Blue"][B]I don't know how you people are going to take my words, But, I am really thinking about this:.[/B][/COLOR]]

Ehm ! Personally I am taking your words simply serene and trying to answer as good as i can....So stop thinking about what other feel about your words (as some may mock your words)..and adopt a positive minded approach till u reach ur optimum state of mind.. from negative the state of mind u r in right now. Take a pride in what you have learned so far from ur studies..

Tip NO:1 : Problem with you is that you care more about the negativity of others about and about ur results, and less about your mental health and its state..First and Foremost thing which can fuel ur mind is that u need to be "Yourself." ...it means u need to stay committed to your work, boast ur mind with good thoughts and finding natural beauty in potential and what u can do...

Tip No 2: wear the boots and cloths of those who want and do criticize you..i mean take there criticism positively and as a force to boast ur confidence..

For example if one of ur your family members, friends, CSS mates or any other person ..Criticize that u r incompetent and don`t have the potential to avail what u r striving for and s/he even adds that u `ll become Mad for becoming a CSP and advice u to leave it (here you need to smell whats the motive behind that criticism..mostly jealousy you can smell there)....

Here I ask you can a real well wisher , really educated and qualified individual can discourage you..obviously the answer is "NO"..if such people were really your well wisher,though would well cultured ,well educated they would fully aware of what there citicism can do to a less confident and vulnerable aspirant of CSS, they `ll never criticize you if they would aware of its impacts..insead fully aware people if not jealous of you . `ll say things in your favour and your desire of becoming a CSP..

I "advice" you and "device" you with one thing in here ...that find out the difference between those who criticize you, and your own self..if you absorb what they say as ignorant people ..then its dead sure that being an Aspirant of CSS U`v leanred nothing so far from ur studies, and have not yet awakened your mind which is the first thing you need to knock the door of CSS exam with fistfull desire of becoming CSP..So be firm in faith in God, solid in determination to your work....not caring about the negativity of others when its against you.. care about your health and mind and keep maintained ur studies and become mentally aware to the extent you can at utmost.....

CSS is not a game of incompetent people..and only the result can`t realize one is competent or not..if u find ur self fail in ur first attempt...second attempt is never gone....In case u do not even pass CSS in any of all the three attempts..u would have learned so many things which `ll help u live a life better than u can have as a civil servant..The books u study for CSS i don`t think can only cater Civil Service Exam ...its an asset for the rest of your life..So don`t use ur studies just for scoring a goal of CSS...Each year we see only the available seats of CSPs are assigned to candidates who stand out the most deserving.

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[/QUOTE]after failing CE-2014, how would I justify my failure to everyone around?[/QUOTE][/COLOR][/B]

*Smiles for this Question *and I answer with justification that u have no need to justify your failure ,the way you want..."Failure is already a justification itself as a step towards success"..if u fail once u strive to study more deeply ..no matter track is of CSS or you adopt any other course of career in case becoming a CSP is not in your destiny....

So the way you have to justify your failure , if u feel there is still a need of it to justify, then u have to maintain that first attempt realized how much more u need to study ...thoough CSS is an unpredictable game..but easy for those who understand how to beat CSS.
[COLOR="Blue"][B]
[/QUOTE]I don't know how would I make everyone understand, that I had this and that problems before and after exams, and this led to my failure[/QUOTE][/B][/COLOR]

As you said "This and that problems after and before exam" ..reflects blatantly clear excuses..after exam problems has nothing to do with your result of CSS...and in case of having problems before exam ..If u mention those problems for your rescue from criticism...instead u can point out no one helped u solving ur problems u had which were stopping u from good studies.

Tip No 1 : So avoid excuses next time and stop being a procrastinate ...beat the excuse and make beneficial use of tiime.

Tip No 2.: Always keep asking for help both offfline and online, if possible, because at this stage study is more important for u than u solving ur problems and giving importance to ur problems instead of ur studies.....Ur state of mind also reveals that U find asking for help derogatory for urself..So always ask for help in a safe way..which simply means u are giving importance to a person u asking for his/her help when u find it easy and comfortable..and in return s/he finds it comfortable to help U in as easy way as possible....when u r in pleasant state of relationship with that particular person or have soem traces of overlap in relationship/link...(Remember rare people bother themselves for others to help them..its upto u how much u bring them near to urself and make them feel owned..)
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[/QUOTE]Everyone around would ask about my result. I don't know how would they think about me--maybe this, that I am incompetent and I can't ever pass this exam[/QUOTE][/B][/COLOR]

Answer :Look at urself with ur eyes not with the eyes of others..U r not bound to anyone who criticise you negatively ..u are an independent person and always u need to "be yourself"...Do u think what you think about others who are confident and have faith in themselves can affect them..Answer is "NO" .if ur thoughts can not make other feel different then why you should take the impression that what other people think about you..and No one has a constantly free time to think about you..always take the benefit of negativity.

Tip NO 1: All You need at this point is to feel happiness in accepting yourself what you are and to develop ur self-confidence.

Tip No 2: Easily develop self-confidence with starting from knowing your priorities as per the need of time..like currently ur first and foremost priority is to use ur mind for the studies of CSS and not for what people are and `ll think about you.
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[/QUOTE]Furthermore, I don't want to justify myself[/QUOTE][/B][/COLOR]

Listen ! When u don`t want to justify yourself..here you finding yourself that you are independent and responsible person for what you do...When u have the courage to not justify urself to others ..then u must develop the courage to discover and know your true self persistently.
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[/QUOTE]nonetheless, there are some, whom I need to give justification. I need to take them in confidence that I will make it in my upcoming attempts[/QUOTE][/B][/COLOR]

Plus adding that from ur current attempt u leanred the level of ur studies and how much u need more to study deeply..
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[/QUOTE]But here I am confused, that how would I do this. How would I take them in confidence?[/QUOTE][/B][/COLOR]

only way to take other in confidence is speaking the truth..no matter how much bitter the truth is,..its real taste appears in gripping the confidence of others..here you may face criticism but take it positively when u take nagative impression of things as unconsciously as a human being..Use always ur conscious mind..as i said with an example above ,a way to benefit from negative criticism.
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[/QUOTE]Reply seriously without making fun out of this please, otherwise don't[/QUOTE][/B][/COLOR]

Answer.I think I have answered as per the need of your request/questions/help.

God Bless You..

Thanks for sharing what you are passing through ,in a safe way,..

Regards

[QUOTE=soft rock;763803][COLOR="Blue"][B]I don't know how you people are going to take my words, But, I am really thinking about this:.[/B][/COLOR]]

Ehm ! Personally I am taking your words simply serene and trying to answer as good as i can....So stop thinking about what other feel about your words (as some may mock your words)..and adopt a positive minded approach till u reach ur optimum state of mind.. from negative the state of mind u r in right now. Take a pride in what you have learned so far from ur studies..

Tip NO:1 : Problem with you is that you care more about the negativity of others about and about ur results, and less about your mental health and its state..First and Foremost thing which can fuel ur mind is that u need to be "Yourself." ...it means u need to stay committed to your work, boast ur mind with good thoughts and finding natural beauty in potential and what u can do...

Tip No 2: wear the boots and cloths of those who want and do criticize you..i mean take there criticism positively and as a force to boast ur confidence..

For example if one of ur your family members, friends, CSS mates or any other person ..Criticize that u r incompetent and don`t have the potential to avail what u r striving for and s/he even adds that u `ll become Mad for becoming a CSP and advice u to leave it (here you need to smell whats the motive behind that criticism..mostly jealousy you can smell there)....

Here I ask you can a real well wisher , really educated and qualified individual can discourage you..obviously the answer is "NO"..if such people were really your well wisher,though would well cultured ,well educated they would fully aware of what there citicism can do to a less confident and vulnerable aspirant of CSS, they `ll never criticize you if they would aware of its impacts..insead fully aware people if not jealous of you . `ll say things in your favour and your desire of becoming a CSP..

I "advice" you and "device" you with one thing in here ...that find out the difference between those who criticize you, and your own self..if you absorb what they say as ignorant people ..then its dead sure that being an Aspirant of CSS U`v leanred nothing so far from ur studies, and have not yet awakened your mind which is the first thing you need to knock the door of CSS exam with fistfull desire of becoming CSP..So be firm in faith in God, solid in determination to your work....not caring about the negativity of others when its against you.. care about your health and mind and keep maintained ur studies and become mentally aware to the extent you can at utmost.....

CSS is not a game of incompetent people..and only the result can`t realize one is competent or not..if u find ur self fail in ur first attempt...second attempt is never gone....In case u do not even pass CSS in any of all the three attempts..u would have learned so many things which `ll help u live a life better than u can have as a civil servant..The books u study for CSS i don`t think can only cater Civil Service Exam ...its an asset for the rest of your life..So don`t use ur studies just for scoring a goal of CSS...Each year we see only the available seats of CSPs are assigned to candidates who stand out the most deserving.

[B][COLOR="Blue"]
after failing CE-2014, how would I justify my failure to everyone around?[/COLOR][/B]

*Smiles for this Question *and I answer with justification that u have no need to justify your failure ,the way you want..."Failure is already a justification itself as a step towards success"..if u fail once u strive to study more deeply ..no matter track is of CSS or you adopt any other course of career in case becoming a CSP is not in your destiny....

So the way you have to justify your failure , if u feel there is still a need of it to justify, then u have to maintain that first attempt realized how much more u need to study ...thoough CSS is an unpredictable game..but easy for those who understand how to beat CSS.
[COLOR="Blue"][B]
I don't know how would I make everyone understand, that I had this and that problems before and after exams, and this led to my failure[/B][/COLOR]

As you said "This and that problems after and before exam" ..reflects blatantly clear excuses..after exam problems has nothing to do with your result of CSS...and in case of having problems before exam ..If u mention those problems for your rescue from criticism...instead u can point out no one helped u solving ur problems u had which were stopping u from good studies.

Tip No 1 : So avoid excuses next time and stop being a procrastinate ...beat the excuse and make beneficial use of tiime.

Tip No 2.: Always keep asking for help both offfline and online, if possible, because at this stage study is more important for u than u solving ur problems and giving importance to ur problems instead of ur studies.....Ur state of mind also reveals that U find asking for help derogatory for urself..So always ask for help in a safe way..which simply means u are giving importance to a person u asking for his/her help when u find it easy and comfortable..and in return s/he finds it comfortable to help U in as easy way as possible....when u r in pleasant state of relationship with that particular person or have soem traces of overlap in relationship/link...(Remember rare people bother themselves for others to help them..its upto u how much u bring them near to urself and make them feel owned..)
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Everyone around would ask about my result. I don't know how would they think about me--maybe this, that I am incompetent and I can't ever pass this exam[/B][/COLOR]

Answer :Look at urself with ur eyes not with the eyes of others..U r not bound to anyone who criticise you negatively ..u are an independent person and always u need to "be yourself"...Do u think what you think about others who are confident and have faith in themselves can affect them..Answer is "NO" .if ur thoughts can not make other feel different then why you should take the impression that what other people think about you..and No one has a constantly free time to think about you..always take the benefit of negativity.

Tip NO 1: All You need at this point is to feel happiness in accepting yourself what you are and to develop ur self-confidence.

Tip No 2: Easily develop self-confidence with starting from knowing your priorities as per the need of time..like currently ur first and foremost priority is to use ur mind for the studies of CSS and not for what people are and `ll think about you.
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[QUOTE]Furthermore, I don't want to justify myself[/QUOTE][/B][/COLOR]

Listen ! When u don`t want to justify yourself..here you finding yourself that you are independent and responsible person for what you do...When u have the courage to not justify urself to others ..then u must develop the courage to discover and know your true self persistently.
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nonetheless, there are some, whom I need to give justification. I need to take them in confidence that I will make it in my upcoming attempts[/B][/COLOR]

Plus adding that from ur current attempt u leanred the level of ur studies and how much u need more to study deeply..
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But here I am confused, that how would I do this. How would I take them in confidence?[/B][/COLOR]

only way to take other in confidence is speaking the truth..no matter how much bitter the truth is,..its real taste appears in gripping the confidence of others..here you may face criticism but take it positively when u take nagative impression of things as unconsciously as a human being..Use always ur conscious mind..as i said with an example above ,a way to benefit from negative criticism.
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Reply seriously without making fun out of this please, otherwise don't[/B][/COLOR]

Answer.I think I have answered as per the need of your request/questions/help.

God Bless You..

Thanks for sharing what you are passing through ,in a safe way,..

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I would say: your reply is just amazing. For me, you have painstakingly replied to my post. I thank you from my heart.
They say, there is always room for improvement. So, here, I am in no way a perfect entity, as my thread reflects. The solutions you have mentioned are fair enough and I am working on it. I hope, it would go well.
God bless you.

" hahahaha.... u are the failed one..... it makes me so happy ... I am an enemy, and i am laughing in your face!! ".... just trying to train you for your martyrdom. :bow Dude! Failure is never justifiable. And as for as jealousy goes, it's a myth. :dd

Dear, no need to give any sort of justifications. Justifications show weakness, helplessness & allow others to find a hidden culprit in you or to treat you mercifully.

Although, there is no justification for failure, but accepting one's failure with open heart could be the best possible alternative for justifications. Just say "I tried but could not make it" & then move on. Even those, who love you a lot and who might accept your justifications for the time being will surely ridicule you at any future failure, when you would have come out of this trauma. So just take the failure lightly & move on. That is the best defense mechanism.

You have to take responsibility for your failures, isn't it? After all, failures contribute more to your ultimate success than wins, because only the failures teach you something. So let's look forward to our result, which will either be a success, or an opportunity to correct ourselves before it's too late.

[QUOTE=Naveed Mahsood;765698]" hahahaha.... u are the failed one..... it makes me so happy ... I am an enemy, and i am laughing in your face!! ".... just trying to train you for your martyrdom. :bow Dude! Failure is never justifiable. And as for as jealousy goes, it's a myth. :dd[/QUOTE]

:huh completely insane ...whoever it is... .....

Eh ....