The dilemma of poverty is not that simple friends.I know how diffiult it is in these testing times to keep the wolf away from the door.This malady is far more agonising than our expectation.The news of parents abandoning their children is slur on our societal values. Why? It is a grim reminder that we have lost two important things.our SELF and enjoyment of our intimate realtions.Our family institution is feeling the pinch of gruelling survival.our mothers are abandoning their beloved children.our family bonds are weaning.Motherhood a position of pride,endurance ,love and care is now emotionless.so is the case with Fatherhood.We all remember the astonishing news of a man slaughtering her three daughters.He did so on the belief that he no longer had the strength to take care of them and it was the best solution to absolve from the responsibility.We have honour killings with brothers killing sisters on the pretext of adultery.Though an abominable tribal custom but still occupies space in our feudal aristocratic society.it can be sighed with utter grief that our society’s microcosm---family institution is suffering.Many factors account for this rot permeating our society.We have poverty,despondency a loss of self , apathy and aloofness. Our society is divided on several lines.The class difference is so conspicuous.the divide between rich and poor is ever increasing.The efforts of government to promote egalitarianism are proving futile.
The loss of ‘Self’ is most palpable in the society.It is said that a persons with a developed self is self-concious.He behaves independently,prudently,responds to different circumstances,tackles trauma and performs in challenging conditions.He also learns to manage his daily needs,plan his future and live within his means.He keeps in touch with the family members,relatives,neighbours and surroundings.but contrary to this a weak self is doing much against the desired.His aloofness,apathy and despondency creates an unbridgeable chasm between him and his acquaintances.
Such a condition can intice suicide,cold blooded murder or vandalism.such a person if not helped in time augments his frustration manifold and becomes a threat to the society.The need of the hour is to integrate the Self in the man and let him realize that he can do a whole lot of things.this will also revive his confidence in himself.
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It is the Imagination which matters not the Knowledge.
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