Childhood Of Our Failure

[amjadiqbal]

The journey of child starts with stories of unobserved truths and impractical guidelines for innocent minds of kids at the time when he even don’t know that how many chromosomes were behind his birth and we want him to know our own mind setups connected with accepted truths (they may be false) unknowingly with mere belief that we are right in any case.
Same kid grows up with huge restrictions over him/her without being introduced with realism and core realities regarding purpose of life among humans until he reaches his age of perception and founds that what he was actually told with absolute certainty is clashing with Not Observed Realities, though few things may support his needs at that time and may be true.
The problem arises when that kid reaches his young age and becomes part of the social circle regarding his advancement of learning, amazingly he gets inspired from very minor and ordinary thinking which comes from majority to him, e.g. he prefers job than learning and understanding , he prefers careless tie to his health than precautions, he is less inclined towards nutrition basics, he is less concerned with air pollution , less concerned with rights of others on and on, this all happens because no one invested these concerns in him except motivation regarding money, 35 years security and old age benefits. If this is the real cause and meaning of our happening here on earth then there is no difference between and tied animal and us, based in psychological origins, we have been in capable regarding humanity and its concerns if continue in the same way.
Though every experience is not based in mistakes but more than half of our experiences come from our mistakes which we actually never intend to happen. A kid which was once completely unaware of his actions and reactions to those actions was brought up in such a way as he was first child on earth and hence no one could compare him. Rather than motivating him with soft-core views of humanity we tried to insert spaces in his efforts to learn in his own way under the strong urge of his genetically approach and overtaken his direction to reach the same answer which he will in later stage. Major drawback is added to his personality when he gathers in social circle and amazingly finds the Xerox copies of same thoughts which he found at his doorsteps in the very first case. He started to play and gather and started to impose restrictions mere to stabilize our concerns regarding him whether they were true or false. In the class rooms he was discouraged to ask any question on any topic with free will and was kept in line of majority. Under this terribly disguised act of our own greed to make him not an ordinate stuffed half of slave image and half of rebel image in that kid. He could never ask freely those questions which are of extreme importance but can’t dare to hear them as historically we have been told that those questions can rationalize the personality of kid, but unfortunately by doing not so could never improve the society ahead a single inch.
Through all those years of childhood with restrictions over all matters of interest, unquestionably discipline at those times when his brain was even not fully functional, comparisons in relations, jealousy in status of co-aged, sects and religion differences in co-aged families, living standards of co-aged, mental threats without reason caused a strange phenomenon in the kid that he will one day leave all others behind in status and possessions rather than same thought for perception and rising conscious level. Constructive personality has been damage until reaching perception level (Special clause regarding deprivation of all healthy sources regarding financial terms, health and security have another extreme and sever case in polishing that personality damage).
Now that kid is young and in practical phase of life with strange inclination towards meeting his childhood spaces by hook and crook. This line of thought further splits to two phases on the curve of his single goal (To become something in possessions) , first to maintain his whole span slavery addiction on continuous level and secondly to do whatsoever for joining the curve and split dispersion space. This leads to another horrible effect what it cause is setting same examples of all coming generations. By reaching this state there is no contribution of free will, charter of humanity, psychological perception and better IQ role and hence it causes a retrograde thinking in the society with all focus over finding something minor (named as success here which is self centred in single person assumption in spite of society benefits). While every success is a taken away chance for other and it divides exactly more than half in losses and there is no equilibrium for that as Vs doesn’t stand between two.
And from here our society begins, our zone of administration begins; our roles to rise our moral levels begin. Now see retardation in the society and I hope that you will come to conclusion that our society is not in bad hands or they are not unfair BUT they had been once mentally retarded kids which came to rise high. If bureaucracy is working better on humanity charts then why we are still not crime free? If we are well learned then from where corruption comes? What is causing us to degrade others for our own gains? What causes us to act immorally while being moral? Our homework is missing. We are not in the safe hands of people with caliber and good IQ with constructive personality. Our investment was not on the ideas, arguments but on the false assumptions. Law and Order is a story assumed to be true and created by a specific class with specific motivations, the real solution in my opinions is cure by psychiatrists rather than mentally retarded people with single idea to revolve their stokes in the kitchen. What a pathetic climax, I am terribly ashamed of.

My deepest concerns for the realists and leftists.

[Naheedmir]

(Our homework is missing. We are not in the safe hands of people with caliber and good IQ with constructive personality).
@iqbal,
Realistic points you have raised. True, in childhood no one focuses on the optimistic and psychological growth of kids rather worn and torn, and so called ideas are imposed on their minds.
We are lacking stable political policies and pretty leadership, so the idea of perfect kids' training simply is left behind.
Those who are our tomorrow, we don't train them today.

Best.