Donot mind girls,
"Aurat ka upna koi ghar nhi hota, pehlay wo baap kay ghar mai rehtii hai phir shohar kay aur aahir mai betay kay."

This statement by Muskan. actualy Muskan you took it on negative side.
think , "pehlay wo baap kay ghar mai rehti hai" jab aurat apne bap ke ghar beti ban kar rehti hai to, to yeh rishta "beti" rehmat hai kisi bhe ghar mein.as every one knows that daughter is symbol of "rehmat"
Then You said "shohar kar ghar" in this again you are on negative side as women gets honour in the shape of wife "miyan aur biwi are the among the prestigious relationship in the world" aur jab aurat biwi ban kar shoar k ghar rehti hai, then think that she becomes mother "which is the most honourable relationship in this world" not even the relationship of father is more superior or honourable than the relationship of mother.
Then you said "betay kay ghar" think where the mother will go in her old age. only son can give him, what she needs in the old age.

and the novel or article that Umera ahmed wrote "mein ik aurat hoon"
is totaly auratism, she tried to cast the image of aurat as "is duniya mein mazloom tareeen" but again its not the case. Both men and women have some problems on each other.donot want to go in much details.i will quote some of her facts that she produced in her noval, as she said that in the world we call "insan" only to "mard" and we call "aurat" to "aurat" and not "insan". i havnt heared before that we call "man or mard" as insan only.we use the word "mard" for them also. Both men and women are equal and called as "insan".
its all.........

Lessons on Life


There was a man who had four sons. He wanted his sons to learn not to judge
things too quickly. So he sent them each on a quest, in turn, to go and look
at a pear tree that was a great distance away.

The first son went in the winter, the second in the spring, the third in
summer, and the youngest son in the fall.

When they had all gone and come back, he called them together to describe
what they had seen.


The first son said that the tree was ugly, bent, and twisted. The second son
said no it was covered with green buds and full of promise.

The third son disagreed; he said it was laden with blossoms that smelled so
sweet and looked so beautiful, it was the most graceful thing he had ever seen.

The last son disagreed with all of them; he said it was ripe and drooping
with fruit, full of life and fulfillment.


The man then explained to his sons that they were all right, because they
had each seen but only one season in the tree's life.

He told them that you cannot judge a tree, or a person, by only one season,
and that the essence of who they are and the pleasure, joy, and love that come

from that life can only be measured at the end, when all the seasons are up.

If you give up when it's winter, you will miss the promise of your spring,
the beauty of your summer, fulfillment of your fall.

Moral:

Don't let the pain of one season destroy the joy of all the rest.

Don't judge life by one difficult season.

Persevere through the difficult patches
and better times are sure to come some time or later.

Assalam o alaikum

If Islam is implemented in our life, such psoting will not be written any more. Islam has given a special place to a woman in society for which a woman cant complain to be a rolling stone among different homes. If a woman realizes its role in the society, we will have an healthy nation around us. Mr Ghayas has put an excellent post. .

Look at the life of Hazrat Fatima zahra. She has played the best role in each place. Being the best daughter of the world (so best that the messenger of Allah stands up on his seat for her respect when she cames in). Being the best wife of the world. The success of Hazrat Ali is supported by Hazrat Fatima. And being the best mother of the world. Look at his children life.

The WEST has injected the hate among our women that they are not given he rights. They are the most helpless part of the society. They should stand up for their rights(which is already their). Being a part of public gathering, doing modeling and performing shamefull act is not their right. Now there is a time when a woman should better decide to what role she has to play rather being played by NGO's.

humayoun bahi i totally agree with u

n sister muskan aurut ka jo aisa status hai tu woh Allah nain banaya hai isee laey humaree society main aurut kee itnee izaat hai verna western aurut jis key laey na father ka ghar apna hai na kisee aur blood relation ka tu woh aurut ziyada ikalee hai apna indepedent ghar honain key bawajood.

jaisey keh aik precept hai

key aurut key kisee bhee gunah key laey 4 logoun sey pooch ho gee

1.father 2.brother 3.husband 4.son

aur phir is key baad aurut sey pooch ho gee.

is laey hum logoun ko tu proud feel kerna chahey keh humara khayal rukhnain waley itnain loog hain.

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Allah is He,than Whom there is no God ;the Sovereign,the Holy One,the Source of Peace(n Perfection),the Guardian of Faith,the Preserver of Safety,the Exalted in Might,the Irresistible,the justly Proud glory to Allah!(High is He)above the partners they attribute to Him.(Surah e Hashar,verse #23)