Mind Control.
 

I have a question which is very practical and we all often experience it once in a life.Why do our mind force to think about negative means when we fail to achieve by legal ways.Say for instance,if we dont get jobs we think about some powerful and bigwigs who can help us in getting into jobs?I have tried best to control mind to think in one dimension that is positive and follow legal means yet i fail to control it.Is this trait inherited or we learn it from society ? i am confuse whether such demons-like thinking is inbuilt or we develop it.I want your views.

[QUOTE=Jhon Milton;1037787]I have a question which is very practical and we all often experience it once in a life.Why do our mind force to think about negative means when we fail to achieve by legal ways.Say for instance,if we dont get jobs we think about some powerful and bigwigs who can help us in getting into jobs?I have tried best to control mind to think in one dimension that is positive and follow legal means yet i fail to control it.Is this trait inherited or we learn it from society ? i am confuse whether such demons-like thinking is inbuilt or we develop it.I want your views.[/QUOTE]

I think such kind of thinking depends on availability of an option and urgency of situation. If an option to plead someone is available and the situation is desperate, anyone can have such thoughts. On the other hand, if option isn't available or the situation isn't desperate, people would rather carve their own destiny then depend on someone else. Believe it or not, the feeling of achieving something on your own is much better than achieving something through someone's favor.
Moreover, coming to more straightforward answer to your question, I think such kind of thinking is party inbuilt but is activated by environmental circumstances. Survival is basic instinct of any individual member of species or species, when its jeopardised people can think of any means to ensure survival and prosperity.