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one thing more I would like to mention is that a women can do anything by remaining within the limits and doing a job for any reason is itself not a bad thing. The purpose of initiating this thread is just to analyze the mentality and thoughts of both males and females...
thanks for the appreciation for girls..plus one thing u said that women can do anything within limits, i dont understand one thing whymen always think that they are above all limitations???i have noticed that girls are mature enough to know and obseve their limits and they do, but again and again thye haveto realise men that wht is their limits..any ways nice effort..and yeah i think girls should do every possible thing they can and they should, dont pay heed to jealous men do whatever u want
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Yes I agree, but it was just an example and I am trying to tell that the reason behind my passion is not to break the norms of the society or to do something for the sake of job only.....
Exactly Thanx for understanding my point.
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Thanx a lot for your encouraging remarks, and I would like to give the answer to your question as well. No one in this world, either a man or a woman is totally free. Men do have some limitations and they should equally understand these restrictions, but may be due to some social factors, they don't bother about their ''limitations''. I think they should be more conscious about these issues, as they play a major role in the family and ultimately in the society. I would like to appreciate you that being a male, you have highlighted this matter.

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Exactly Thanx for understanding my point.
welcome. Now, I am happy that a healthy discussion has been started on this significant matter.
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Thanx a lot for your encouraging remarks, and I would like to give the answer to your question as well. No one in this world, either a man or a woman is totally free. Men do have some limitations and they should equally understand these restrictions, but may be due to some social factors, they don't bother about their ''limitations''. I think they should be more conscious about these issues, as they play a major role in the family and ultimately in the society. I would like to appreciate you that being a male, you have highlighted this matter.

Yes exactly men have major contribution and they should take care of limitations/moral values etc. and many men do so too. But few sick minds( i mean girls) who talk about gender discrimination raise this point for securing themselves and present this argument that if men are not doing good then women should also not, but I think everyone is responsible for his/her personal character and personal behavior should be independent of what others do.

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welcome. Now, I am happy that a healthy discussion has been started on this significant matter.
Yes mano healthy discussion takes place when people talk with arguments looking forward positively, means they just dont speak in air or give insulting remarks or so, and accept what others say if acceptable.
Discussion is ruined by comments like the one given by kjay above. Such points take to discrmination and I personally avoid replying such things.
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Yes exactly men have major contribution and they should take care of limitations/moral values etc. and many men do so too. But few sick minds( i mean girls) who talk about gender discrimination raise this point for securing themselves and present this argument that if men are not doing good then women should also not, but I think everyone is responsible for his/her personal character and personal behavior should be independent of what others do.



Yes mano healthy discussion takes place when people talk with arguments looking forward positively, means they just dont speak in air or give insulting remarks or so, and accept what others say if acceptable.
Discussion is ruined by comments like the one given by kjay above. Such points take to discrmination and I personally avoid replying such things.
please don't take any of the comment personal. it's a general discussion and this thread is not about gender discrimination at all. we should respect everyone's views. Take it easy
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Then one should not waste hard earned money of parents on higher education.Graduation can suffice and serve this purpose well.
I strongly agree,after geting Higher Education girls should participate actively for the development of society rather siting back at home...There are many respectable jobs for them...otherwise it ll b useless n yes the wastage of money and time aswel....In that case grduation is enough 2 perform household duties in a better way....
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This is a beautiful article:

The woman in your life...very well expressed...
Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry her with these facts as well.



Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;
Who is earning almost as much as you do;

One, who has dreams and aspirations just as
you have because she is as human as you are;

One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your
Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system
that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements

One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as
much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;

One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family ,name

One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen

One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more, and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother, a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you are as
to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you;

One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;

One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;

One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important,
relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some
and trust her;

One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.

But not many guys understand this.......
Please appreciate "HER"

I hope you will do....
Very well depiction.Ah !

@all I'm in favour of job either one needs it or not ! After taking exam of C.S.S,I spent almost 6 months at home and it was worst feeling to sit idle when I had enough talent to use but at right place.These days I'm doing internship and I'm very satisfied that I'm spending life with a purpose;I share knowledge and I learn everyday and most of all I have social circle to communicate.
Yes I'm not in favour of job after marriage if your spouse doesn't allow you or your children get neglect .But if there isn't either of reasons,one should use her talents and energy at a platform which may give her satisfaction but may not overwhelm and over burden her domestic life.

Proud to be a lady who can equally contribute for her society as a man does !
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but why should we take pain?if we dont need it,then we should not take this load of work.men are supposed to do the task ,they are supposed to be the bread earners ,so let them be...simple....its their social and religious obligation,so stay calm and enjoy life.
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This is a beautiful article:

The woman in your life...very well expressed...
Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry her with these facts as well.



Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;
Who is earning almost as much as you do;

One, who has dreams and aspirations just as
you have because she is as human as you are;

One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your
Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system
that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements

One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as
much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;

One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family ,name

One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen

One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more, and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother, a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you are as
to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you;

One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;

One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;

One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important,
relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some
and trust her;

One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.

But not many guys understand this.......
Please appreciate "HER"

I hope you will do....
Impressive.
Leaving the job matter apart, the mentioned sacrifices is the fate of almost every girl in our society.
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but why should we take pain?if we dont need it,then we should not take this load of work.men are supposed to do the task ,they are supposed to be the bread earners ,so let them be...simple....its their social and religious obligation,so stay calm and enjoy life.
Yes exactly men should do what they are supposed to do. Women have their own religious and social obligations, and they are more important so they should take care of them and enjoy them too
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