This is a beautiful article:

The woman in your life...very well expressed...
Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry her with these facts as well.



Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;
Who is earning almost as much as you do;

One, who has dreams and aspirations just as
you have because she is as human as you are;

One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your
Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system
that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements

One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as
much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;

One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family ,name

One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen

One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more, and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother, a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you are as
to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you;

One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;

One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;

One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important,
relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some
and trust her;

One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.

But not many guys understand this.......
Please appreciate "HER"
I hope you will do....

All it means, men and women are equal...... None is special....

It's just an appreciation and giving her credit of her identity and importance. It's all about one's perception that how exclusively you think...YES nothing else is so special in it. I hope you have understand it!!!!!!!!!

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what humbugs we r,who pretend to live for beauty and never see the dawn :)

One who is a girl should be a girl not a man

She should understand this infact.

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I am not interested in power for power's sake, but I'm interested in power that is moral, that is right and that is good.

That's why i don't appreciate women..working after marriage without any reason!yes if they really need it then they must go for it.

I mean why to suffer like hell,just stay at home..enjoy your degree..manage your home and chill.

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Giving up doesn't always mean you are weak … sometimes it means that you are strong enough to let go:)

What is use of that Degree ?

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When you try, you risk failure. When you don’t try, you ensure it.

you people are saying that because you have all financial resources, think about the girl who has to work outside her house to earn money due to some serious issues and problems, and even then her husband, brother , father or her son and ultimately the whole society don't give her respect or her actual position. AND remember anyone can face difficult times in life....Yes to this extent I agree that unnecessarily a woman should not take the extra burden being over ambitious. Kindly try to think from all perspectives.

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what humbugs we r,who pretend to live for beauty and never see the dawn :)

one thing more I would like to mention is that a women can do anything by remaining within the limits and doing a job for any reason is itself not a bad thing. The purpose of initiating this thread is just to analyze the mentality and thoughts of both males and females...

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what humbugs we r,who pretend to live for beauty and never see the dawn :)

Come on,its not necessary to use this degree outside the home only,At home,one can have so many opportunities to use that degree.

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Giving up doesn't always mean you are weak … sometimes it means that you are strong enough to let go:)

Then one should not waste hard earned money of parents on higher education.Graduation can suffice and serve this purpose well.

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When you try, you risk failure. When you don’t try, you ensure it.