A few days ago I came across a thread started by
abdussamad chaudhary in which he showed his dream to see last islad on the road but he was reported dead a few days after the start of the thread. His wish to meet last island remained a wish untill his death which made everyone on the forum very sad and this incident also left very sad image on last island's mind heart and soul.

May Allah rest his soul in peace. And may allah give patience and long life to last island.

The thing in the whole thread made me is that Mr Chaudhary was lucky enough that he has friends on the forum who reported his death on the forum, but who will report my death to the forum members. What about those deceased members which are no more in the world but their account is still active as live account on the forum. This is only due to the fact that they did not have any close friend on the forum to report their death. And css forum administeration has not started any forum of this kind. I know this forum is not to report death of the people but when we can celebrate birthdays why not we can morn death of our fellows.

I have been member of this forum since 2011 and i have completed about three years on thisforum but I have not made any friend on this forum which make me sad.

I really like very much Mr. buddha, gotam, last island, TS Awan, M A Chaudhary, Naveed Bhutto, the shah ends, khoso, abid achakzai, MM Manika, fari,evergreen , vetdoctor , and Kamran but I feel very sad to remind that I dont have any contact with them without this forum and I cannot share ideas with them on this forum.

Cannot we make this forum more social than more formal dear mods and admns.
What if we increase our contacts through this forum.
What if we try to polish and guide our brothers and sisters again and again than to ban them on their faults. Lets make this forum like a family or like a class room in which members are punished but not ousted.
Lets celeberate our happiness and face our hardships togather.
Lets become more social and loving than we already are.


At the end I pray for all those forum members which are no more on the earth.

I was of the same point : to make this forum more social, since few days.

Plus we can not contact properly our seniors. I had real problem in getting Psychology notes but the senior could just say others : contact me through email (his email not shown). What if we had posted a proper link to get them? That was a serious issue especially for me. Even if I found the email ids and had mailed them, they could not draw attention towards it and I still not have received them.

There should be a tab in css forum where we just go and download noted uploaded by seniors, instead of saying them : Sir, I've emailed you kindly make a reply. How manual and ineffective way of getting notes?. What we had to do, other way, is to go through threads just to find the links and see if working or not.

In short :
-Be it more social (eg a PM), allowing contacting our seniors and CSPs
-Tab for getting Notes uploaded by Seniors and CSPs

Regards,
Hideous Ahsen

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Mazhar all our wishes and desires die when we die. We care as long as we live and after that it simply doesn't matter.

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@Mazhar Ali Khokhar
Whenever I read this thread title in feeds, am like "I will. When do you plan to die, anyway?"
But when I open this thread it's kinda serious, so I hold back.

Buddha is right. All our needs including the need to socialize- online or otherwise, come to an end with our death.

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@ Mazhar
Brother! What would we do after death if everyone get to know about our death? Simply, we won't be here in this world. People want to get noticed being alive not after their demise. And then after our death everything ends for us. Han aik dua reh jati hai, but those who pray for us are surely praying for us being alive even. Anyhow, you have written thought-provoking words. But being noticed after death doesn't matter much, I will salute the one who cares for people's feelings when they are alive, death kay baad to sabhi azeez hojatay hain chahay dushman hon ya dost, ye koi barhayi nahin in my view.
Now, regarding personal contact, once there was a PM option in this forum. Some people misused that option, so, Mods removed that facility.
PS: Thanks for liking, I like you too, you are a good guy Masha Allah. May Allah bless you always. Ameen
Regards.

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I am sharing a story regarding this suggestion of death reporting.
It is said that there were two friends living in same area.one was patwari and other was lambardar of that area.once patwari's buffalo died,Lambardar called people and went to his residence to share their grievances with patwari.After sometime patwari died,people told Lambardar that patwari has died.Lambardar replied my relation was with patwari,he has died so no need to go there.
I didn't say that every man is like patwari and Lambardar but mostly it prevails.
People only have relation when they have an axe to grind.when a person died all his relation vanished day by day.so I think no need for death reporting.

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What about a 'scrap' facility i.e. the message visible to others too, so that people may not misuse it.

And a tab for uploading, downloading notes will surely be liked by our Panel Members I hope.

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I agree to the idea that there should be a deceased member list as a monument of their service to this forum.

Reporting Such death is a very emotional phenomenon and human is all about emotions.

regards

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@mazhar bhai AOA
I see and read each and every post of cssforum including yours.Your posts are always very interesting. But one thing i feel from your posts that you are not using cssforum for knowledge purposes but to gain attention of forum members specially moderators.
You always try to reply on last Island comments whether it is related to you or not.
Brother i am sorry if my words hurt you.
Stay blessed.

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Mazhar:-

You idea doesn't seem convincing. What if people start making mischievous pranks by proclaiming someone's sudden death, who will verify it?

Your thought, if implemented, will cause inconvenience for all.

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