Don’t Love Beauty But Permanence
Beloveds and lovers have provided beauty to the system of this universe. Mostly a true lover tries to perish himself in the permanence of his beloved. So the essence of love does not depend mostly on beauty but on the permanence of some qualities which seems to exist always just as if there is permanence in beauty then it deserves to be loved. Just as a moth tries to perish itself in the flame of the candle if it is constantly glowing, but if there is blinking of it then the moth move away and the candle becomes no more beloved for it.
If someone has affection for a girl only because she is beautiful and young then his love will no more exist when she will lose her beauty and youth in her old age, then the wrinkles on her face will become love repellents. Most of the divorces are caused because of these temporary lovers who get bored as their passions are based on beauty.
The best relation of love which is always on the way of progress and prosperity is experienced by the lovers of God. Those who once taste this passion they want to progress in it forward because there is permanence in the qualities and the light of God.
Therefore while choosing a life partner or a beloved then it should be verified that on what the pillars of love are based, must be permanent. It should never be based upon the physical beauty but on some permanent inner qualities and beauty of the heart which is immortal and can make the relation as immortal too.
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Life is the name of competition.
Competition end, life end.
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