As a number of organization are working for the rights of women but a major problem which is being faced by women in the world is that women loose their respect after the marriage which they deserve. Before the marriage the women are respected and loved by their mates and because of being attracted by it they get themselves married but after passing some time this magic of love starts decreasing gradually and their mates do not give them due importance and respect.


This thing hurts women internally and in some parts of the world this change in behaviour of men causes a number of problems for these innocent women. Some bold women in many countries considering this change in behaviour of man as hypocrisy get divorced and become separated from their husbands. If this marriage has some production of children then these children are also badly affected. A rate of divorce is also being increased because of it.


A woman who has support from her parents, without taking divorce return back to her parents (mostly in Asian countries) with a hope that the behaviour of her husband will be changed because of this few days' separation. It may yield some positive but temporary results.


Some women mostly in South Asian countries particularly in Pakistan and India because of their social pressure do not get themselves separated from their husbands through divorce or anything but they give sacrifice of their self respect, their personal life and their due importance and live with a hope of a positive change in the behaviour of their husbands. Sometimes such kind of women is tortured and harassed by their husbands and by their in laws and become just like breathing dead bodies.


But these problems are caused because the couples do not try to understand each other and especially the women loose their grips on their spouses. The females do not know their weaknesses and how to overcome these and mostly the women do not know how to use their beauties to create importance and how to keep the magic of love alive.


If women start knowing ‘how to understand their husbands, how to motivate them and their emotional needs by keeping the love alive’ they can achieve their importance and respect by their husbands and it can reduce a number of social problems like divorce, violence and harassments against women whose root cause is lack of presence of love in husband and wife. A woman can become a regulating authority of love if she understand her own importance and start knowing ‘how to make her husband as victim of her beauty.’ Moreover the sexual desires of the mate should never be completely fulfilled because the trick of tantalization can increase the importance of a wife.

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