If your mother tongue is Punjabi, you can start debate with the following famous verse of punjabi;

Dil darya sumondray dongay ........ Kon dilan dia janay hoo

Means hearts is deeper then sea and river and it is so vast that nobody knows what is stored in a heart !

Good Luck.

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/// Aur be ghum hain zamanay main muhabat kay siwa ///