There is no concept of BARAT, MEHNDI, MIYOON and other formalities that we have attached with the Marriage. These festivities have made the marriage a big problem for the parents and they have to barrow money to fulfill these un-islamic things. It is only the new generation that can say no to these Fazooliat and make marriage a simple social affair. Lets say NO to these social evils and make life easier for our parents.
I recently attended a wedding where the girl firmly refused to sit in MIYOON and said no to other Hindu type RASOOMAT and everybody was praising the girl and her family.
(And the bride was wearing scarf with her wedding dress)