can any one of you explain the the the the concept of Fate/destiny w r t Hell? as we know that we have a destiny, whatever we do, unchangeable, written in "loh i mahifooz" (book of Allah). so fire/ frost (as it is not only fire that will torment the sinners) is waiting for us! Whatever we do will not help us to diverge us from our that destinty ,if written so. So hell is good thing because God has chosen it for us! (that is seroius joke friends, to make my point) that is also one of the misconceptions of theorists. above mentioned fear (by miss khoso) is aslo due to such misconceptions.
so be practical muslim, read Quran, and think optimistically. Make intention that:"Allah will not put us on fire His best Creation, Ummah of His prophet Muhammad(SAWW)": but plz that is not an ostrich policy

mein jab university mein tha tu ek din class start hone se pehley kisi ne board per likha tha (sorry a bit vulgar)
"zindagi ka koi bharosa nahi, ao pyar karein"
these are psychological conditions better be cured by psychatrists than us (halfwits).