HIIII,, as u hv asked how 2 become good human so now it will be unjustice if i dont guide u(if u r serious 2 know that)
KNOW URSELF
IF we fulfilled the purpose of life we r good humans.but 2 fulfill purpose 1st of all we must know our self. as the allama iqbal says
apne mann mein doob kar paja surage zidge
tu agar mera nahein banta na ban apna to ban
there r many steps of self recognition.
1-self introduction-u r not just made of flesh and bone. there is energy feeding source in u i.e we may call it rooh.all our abilities depend upon it.if it leaves us we just die..we just hv 2 know it. it has endless abilities(ok i can not go in detail here)
2-when we will know ourself it will open new horizone 4 us.we will know the knowledge that god had taught us."ilmul asma"i.e(knowledge of whole universe things wrongly translated as names of things )described in 4 or 5th raqoo of ist para.when we will know this knowledge(it is also in our inner)we will become ASHRAFUL MAKHLOOQAT.WITH OUT THIS KNOWLEGE WE R JUST LIKE ANIMALS.just 2 live 4 eat ,grow , grow child etc.just intelligence is not human ability,who knows not there r many animals which r more intelligence like weaving of spiders net(again i can not go in detail here)
3-3rd step of self recognition is 2 know god, god says(mein tumhari shei rug se b ziada qareeb hoon...at other place god says..mein tumhare andar betha hoon tum mughe dethte kyuon nahi)when we will recognize god we will become good humans as we hv fulfilled our purpose of life.and knowledge of self recognition is easiest knowledge in world.. as god says ...jo meri taraf eik qadam uthata he mein us ki taraf 10 qadam uthata hoon.and god has no distances HIS 4 steps may cover whole distance
this is how we can become good humans...4 further details u may consult mahnama ROOHANI DIGEST OR MAY VISIT
www.roohanidigest.com
OTHER WAY
IF U DONT BELIEVE ME OR U R UNABLE 2 UNDERSTAND then there is other way 2 become good human
1st neeyat khalis ho, dil mein khaloos ho. at any time in the day daily best is 2 choose one time,and pray god 2 show the right path.. HE WILL DEFINIETLY SHOW U RIGHT PATH as god has created a system whose work is just 2 show the right path 2 those who wish it..hope it is not boring but guiding
best wishes...