Originally Posted by Farrukh Aziz

A handsome is that handsome does

By the above proverb we mean that outer beauty of a person is of no use and is worthless if she/he is innerly ugly.His actions reveal his handsomeness.However outerly beautiful he may be, he is vain if his inner is pregnant with ugliness.By his outer beauty,he can deceive people and can put a favourable impression on them but it does not last long;it is only short-lived. Ugliness that lies within him, definitely comes before people one day in future.As appearances are deceptive,he can take in us by his handsomeness of face.We can be impressed with his beauty and even sometimes, we get envious of his handsomeness too but this is because we are not aware of the fact that beauty is only skin deep.Beauty of a character has much more importance than the beauty of a face.As Ninon said," That which is striking and beautiful is not always good, but that which is good is always beautiful."

People generally dislike talking to a person who is outwardly ugly, even they do not want him to sit beside them.For instance:A child is drowning into water in the presence of two persons namely a person with with inner beauty and another person with outer beauty.The handsome person does not want to lose his life by jumping into water whereas the person with inner beauty does not shirk from it at all.He , on the spot, jumps into the water at the cost of his own life so as to save the life of the drowning child. It shows the people standing there that the ugly-faced person whom they did not like, has proved to be a diamond and the handsome person who ruled over their hearts by attracting them through his beauty, has emerged as worthless and valueless. According to Ruskin "Remember that the most beautiful things in the world are the most useless; peacocks and lilies, for example.

We should learn from the line that all that glitters cannot be gold. We must not be taken in by the cunning looks of a person.And besides it, we should also give much importance,value and deep respect to those who have been blessed with the gift of the most precious thing of the world, i.e. inner beauty or handsome character.According to James Ellis " Better an ugly face than an ugly mind."

Originally Posted by rabia butt

TOPIC: CUT YOUR COAT ACCORDING TO YOUR CLOTH
TO SPEND IN COMMENSURATE WITH ONE'S AVAILABLE WHEREWITHAL IS A KEY TO FINANCIAL PROSPERITY.A PERSON WHO TAILORS HIS NEEDS ACCORDING TO THE AVAILABLE RESOURCES SELDOM FACES MONETARY STRAITS.HE REMAINS HAPPY AND SATISFIED.ON THE CONTRARY,A PERSON WHO EXCEEDS HIS EXPENSES THAN HIS INCOME FACES MUSIC.HE OCCASIONALLY REMIANS FRUSTRATED AND UNHAPPY.THEREFORE,MAKING OPTIMAL USE OF THE WHEREWITHAL BRINGS FINANCIAL RELAXATION ON ONE HAND,IT BRINGS CONTENTMENT AND GRATITUDE ON THE OTHER.
A PERSON BEGINS TO FACE DIFFICULTIES WHEN HE GIVES LOOSE HAND TO HIS DESIRES.WHEN UMPTEENTH NUMBER OF WISHES OVERPOWERS HIM,THEN HERE STARTS THE TRANSGRESSION OF THE LIMITS OF RESOURCES.TAILORING ONE'S REQUIREMENTS TO THE RESOURCES RATHER TAILORING RESOURCES TO ONE'S REQUIREMNTS BENEFIT MAN.T IS TRULY SAID THAT ADJUSTMENT IS ANOTHER NAME OF LIFE.ONE NEEDS TO LEARN HOW TO ADJUST ONESELF IN THE AMBIT OF MEANS.ADAPTATION IS THE KEY FUNCTION WHICH NEEDS TO BE PRACTISED IN OUR DAILY LIVES.PUTTING TIGHT NOOSE ON OUR ENDLESS DESIRES AND ADJUSTING OUR EXPENSES WITHIN OUR MEANS GIVES CONTENTMENT.THOSE WJO EXCEED THEIR RESOURCES MORE OFTEN RESORT TO UNLAWFUL AND AMORAL BUSINESS OF GETTING THEM FULFILLED.THEY,ON ONE HAND,EARN BAD NAME AND ON THE OTHER HAND ALWAYS REMAIN FRUSTRATED SOULS.THEY SHOW UNTHANKFULNESS EVEN TOWARDS BESTOWED RESOURCES.IN TURN,THEY REAP NOTHING BUT CURES OF TEH GOD.PROVIDENCE,CAREFUL SPENDING AND LIMITING ONE'S EXPENSES ARE SOEM OF THE TRAITS TO ACHIEVE THE TECHNIQUE OF CUTTING ONE'S COAT ACCORDING TO ONE'S CLOTH.
ONCE HARAZT ALI SAID:''THE GREATEST RICHES IS THE ABANDONMENT OF DESIRES.''THOSE ARE TRULY RICH WHO LEARN TO ABANDON THEIR EXTRA DESIRES WHICH HAMPERS THEIR CONTENTMENT.TODAY,PAKSITAN HAS BECOME INDEBTED TO BILLION RUPEES OF LOAN.IT IS BECAUSE WE SHUNED THIS PRINCIPLE.WE DID NOT MAKE OPTIMAL USE OF OUR OWN RESOURCES,EXCEEDED OUR EXPENDITURES BEYOND OUR CAPACITY AND FAILED TO ADJUST WITHIN THE DOMAIN OF OUR MEANS.THAT BOUGHT US TO THE CURSE OF CLOSSAL LOANS.WORST PART IS THAT WE COULD NOT ACHEIVE ANY SUBSTANTIAL PROGRESS EVEN.
THIS IS THE NEED OF HOUR TO REVISIT OUR ATTITUDES TOWARD SPENDING,BOTH INDIVIDUALLY AND COLECTIVELY.WE NEED TO CUT SHORT OUR AREA OF NON-PRODUCTIVE SPENDINGS.SETTING PRIORITIES OF SPENDING IS THE FIRST TASK AND RECOGNIZING AVAIALABLE RESOURCES IS THE SECOND.THEREAFTER REGULAR READJSUTMENTS OF THE AREAS OF SPENDING IS A MUST PRACTICE.ONLY THEN CAN WE STAND,INDIVIDUALLY AND COLLECTIVELY,ON OUR OWN FEET AND IN COMITY OF RESPECTABLE NATIONS AROUND THE GLOBE.
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