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Old Monday, September 02, 2013
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it throws light on basic instinctive behaviour of humans that if they are constantly kept under adverse situations they learn to evolve and their response to stress just keeps on improving until they come up with the best possible solution.If parents consistently evaluate the performance of their child from every perspective,it is quite natural for a child to put an extra effort even in his/her daily activities to comply with the expectations of his/her parents and most of the times it will result in better outcomes.on the other hand,this constant interference of parents might be taken negatively by the child,compelling him to use unfair means to cheat his/her parents and pushing the child into depths of despair and turning him/her into a social outcast.loads of such examples can be quoted where parents' over expectations caused an irreversible damage to the personality of their children and it gave birth of never ending conflicts spanning over their lifetimes.So,it is quite a sensitive issue which needs to be handled with great care and good strategy.If the parents use this regime wisely it is likely that it will make their child more mentally sound,more skillful and more refined human being.positive criticism,compassion and positive re-enforcement remain the key to shape children into successful persons.

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Last edited by Syeda Bukhari; Monday, September 02, 2013 at 05:10 PM. Reason: Chain posts
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