It is defended for obvious reasons brother. Your case is just like that of Islam and other Abrahamic religions, i.e. Christianity and Judaism. Islam claims to be an extension of the same message as Christianity and Judaism but it establishes itself as a separate religion with its own tenets and doctrination. Moreover the other two still don't admit it is a true religion and discrimination remains, Muslims never push them to accept that we are Christianity+ (or Judaism+) and therefore we need to be equal part of your religious society. Try using your common sense bro . Being educated doesn't mean you deprive your self of common sense and imbibe some superfluous sense . Islam's message is to respect and treat fairly the minorities, but obviously a religious belief so different from the core Islamic tenet cannot be 'included' in Islam, it has to remain separate. This is where Ahmadia are wrong, they want to give a perception that their religion is also Islam which is a deceitful stance and invites unwarranted trouble .

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