Ursula, Bilal Hassan made a generic post and so did Daisy. They did not pinpoint any user; and in my humble opinion, there was no need to take it personally. Bilal Hassan was derided by few users who took the story of his struggle with pinch of salt but he overlooked. Now, if all those users who actually bullied him, pop up in this thread and launch an invective, do you think he will respond?
One reason most of us just read and do not partake in discussions is because we know almost every second thing will lead to petty arguments that sap us of our vigour and may throw few important minutes down the drain. At a certain age, to many of us, peace becomes more important than being right.
Let's begin to simplify things rather than making them more involved.
God bless you!
PS: No sarcasm intended.