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Originally Posted by quantumX
It seems like everyone sees marriage as a source of "Enjoyment" and nothing else. I think it is a sensitive decision to be made is one's life as it is not a "Gudda aur guria ka khail". There are so many other factors involved in marrying to someone but people usually see it as a sexual thing and over here on the forum too. One should not in a haste to make an early decision because of not having control over sexual desires but instead one should think of considering all the factors involved that could lead a couple to a happy married life ahead.
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Whatever you write for the necessary of marriage, aren't wrong. Actually, a book can be easily write if we start discussing benefits, necessities and other ethical and philosophical attributes of married life.
But... after all ground reality is, according to Nature and our Religion; basic (not sole) purpose of marriage is giving a (safe) way out to sexual pressures; to maintain the social equilibrium. (I'm not going in detail of circumstances of fulfilling sexual thirst in animal way)
After marriage, all ethical, social and philosophical attributes are taken care by the Nature and involvement of Society/Religion.
If someone denies importance of sexual dimension, he is totally wrong or passed his potential age which creates such urges. He needs to observe and understand the nature. Look from the start, not after Ph.D. Look at birds, animals; how they pair. Observe coupling basics in societies; European/American, Middle East, India.
Go simple, you'll get answers. Don't interfere too much with nature.
Let the nature do it's work.