The problems of "HE" and "SHE"...

The problems with "HE" as thought by "SHE"


If u TREAT him nicely, he says u are IN LOVE with him;
If u Don't, he says u are PROUD.


If u DRESS Nicely, he says u are trying to LURE him;
If u Don't, he says u are from VILLAGE.


If u ARGUE with him, he says u are STUBBORN ;
If u keep QUIET, he says u have no BRAINS .


If u are SMARTER than him, he'll lose FACE;
If he's Smarter than u, he is GREAT.


If u don't Love him, he tries to POSSESS u;
If u Love him! , he will try to LEAVE u.(very true huh?)


If u don't MAKE LOVE with him., he says u DON'T LOVE him;
If u DO!! He says u are CHEAP.


If u tell him your PROBLEM, he says u are TROUBLESOME;
If u DON'T, he says that u don't TRUST him.


If u SCOLD him, u are like a NANNY to him;
If he SCOLDS u, it is because he CARES for u.


If u BREAK your PROMISE, u Cannot be TRUSTED;
If he BREAKS his, he is FORCED to do so.


If u SMOKE, u are BAD girl;
If he SMOKES, he is GENTLEMAN.


If u do WELL in your exams, he says it's LUCK;
If he does WELL, it's BRAIN.


If u HURT him, u are CRUEL;
If he HURTS u, u are too SENSITIVE!!

we boys r very good and harmless people actually..........bas zara se badnaam hain..........

by the way, its a nice post

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Good stuff...
waisay i will say,
Why does SHE want everyone to treat nicely?
There is difference between dressing up nice and tightly.
SHE has the complex that SHE must not look like village girl, it is not HE who says.
Bout possessing 'SHE' by 'HE' i will say that SHE is more possessive.
SHE must MAKE LOVE with 'HE' who is legally and religiously authorized. I can bet HE will not call 'SHE' cheap.

And about the rest i will say Allah has made 'HE' dominant.'SHE's origin is from 'HE's part of body.It is nature And if SHE conforms to it SHE will have no problem with HE. I can bet

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Its quite true tht Allah has made HE dominant but not to behave in the way as most HEs do.
I think u have got my point.

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Islam has granted dominance to man for two reasons:physical strength and financial resources.We see in the modern era that the need for physical strength is decreasing.Its an era pf mental strength.Also women are pursuing challenging careers.They are mostly earning equal and sometimes more than men.This means that level of dominance of men has declined but not essentially diminished.Dominance means one surpassing another on some qualities or factors.The dominance of man means that he has more power authority and likewise more obligations and responsibilities.he is accountable for how he treats SHE.At the same time,SHE is also dominant.She has more kindness,soft feelings,sensitivity,tolerance and endurance.Also she has more rights and less responsibilities and obligations.Thus,in some qualities,he is dominant and in some she.But overall,Islam has placed a great responsibility on the part of he.And if she starts exercising her rights that islam has given her and he understands the true meaning of dominance,then he will realize that there is a purpose behind dominance of he which most he's dont realize.But having,realizing and acting that dominance,more burden has been placed on the shoulders of he.So for what He (generally) are proud of?In addition,bad intentions and wrong doings can be associated to both,only one cannot be held responsible for anything.
By the way i have literally seen some foolish men forcing their wives to conform to their suggestions and decisions.Can anyone elaborate about conformity of women?And also that what islam says about comformity of women.In what cases and ways a woman can exercise her right of freedom of speech and discussion ,especially in matters not having implications for men?Because Amjab hafeez has mentioned that a woman MUST conform to her husband(he has not used the word MUST although his sentence suggests compulsion).But islam has also given her freedom of speech,discussion and decision.What about that?
Islam has given women some rights.If men dont care for those rights,how they can be dominant?Like,its a woman's right to live separately if she doesnt want to live in joint family system of her inlaws.And its her husband duty to provide her with separate house.But in our society i think,culture has held more strong roots as compared to religion.Kindly elaborate on such complex issues as well.

@At ur own risk
please have a look at EVE's post. I have used same wording which EVE used in her post.All HE are not same as all SHE.
@vanity unleashed
A quranic verse says"merd auraton per qawam hain".
It is actually , the matter of priorities.It is nature and the violation of nature creates problems.I don,t know why the delicate sex is ready to accept humiliation in the name of freedom.

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@ Amjad
She always do but it is HE who does not stick to a single lady. I CAN BET.

@ AT you own risk
Agreed

@ Vanity Unleashed
Ur every word is true. Infact u spoke my mind.

Any one who can answer her questions truly?

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@vanity unleashed
If SHE is more intelligent and can bear hardships , why were the messengers(all of them) of allah were HEs and not a single SHE is amongst them.If going out of home and doing things are SHEs nature, allah must have made at least one of SHEs His Rasool or Nabi?

And if financial resources were enough for domestic dominance,Hazrat Khadija(R.A) was much wealthier than the Holy Prophet(PBUH) when they married.

@last island
aap ki bat tou ghalat ho hi nahi skti after all aap nay masters jo kia hai..

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She is intelligent and can bear hardships but the difference is that she is weaker in terms of physical strength. And men always take advantage of it.

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@It is not the answer of my question.It is Allah who decided about His messengers not HEs.

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