Hi friends I have problem from some years. I want to discuss with you people please advice me sincerely.. This is my personal issue which I want to discuss with you. From so many months I have facing problem like I have no motivation. I have no interest in any thing.. I just use FB all the day.. people of my age are doing job but I have no ambition at all for anything.. I dont know my purpose in life.. I dont know what is happening in my life.. I think about css but when I start study and see syllabus i feel tired and burden in mind like It is very difficult then I close the books and came back from library and open FB but after some days when someone say me why you are wasting your time. then I feel fear that oh.. I have wasted that much time and I have not realized etc .. I dont know what is happening with me.. please if anyone understand this tell me what should I do?

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1. Work on a single subject and finish it in a given time frame. Because if you see as a whole it will likely to become a psychological burden.
2. Compete with your friend or acquaintance because it will always remind you where you were and where you are supposed to be or join friends who are also engaged in the same preparation.
3. Stop using Internet connection for a period of time. Uninstal all the apps, games which are consuming your precious time.
4. Lastly, without passion and strong determination nothing can be done in this world.
Good luck ☺

"Without courage, wisdom bears no fruit."

Internet and Facebook are not a problem. You just need to meet your old friends who are doing jobs. Observe them during your conversation with them, and see how they have changed and groomed since you last met them. This kind of a problem arises when you spend too much time holed up in your home, and do not meet with people. One question from you? Do you ever think that life is meaningless? It does not have any value? Everything including the people who are doing the jobs are just wasting their time, and that in the end everyone has to die, so whats the meaning of all this?

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I feel like that sometimes

Only one suggestion, Change the current environment, mingle with successful people

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Dear you have psychological disorder of distraction means procrastination . You must feed ur self frequently with motivation capsules . These capsules are the successful people of society . They live around us. Only catching eyes are required to find them.

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SUBHANALLAH_IL_AZEEM!

Sorry for not being able to reply promptly. I had an interview so it took up my few days. Anyways, in addition to getting more social,I have few more suggestions.

1) Starting thinking about and be more concerned about the well-being of your parents. Make it the goal of your material life to satisfy their every need as long as they are alive. You are lacking direction right now and you have become emotionally blunted. The only way to cure this emotional apathy is to start thinking about other loved ones.
2) Stop watching movies or any other thing based on fantasy for a while. Right now, your focus should be to take stock of the reality. Watching movies sometimes distract us from the reality.


One last question? Do you get angry or are able to withstand everything other says? Is there any difference in how you behave at home and how you behave with outsiders?

I am interested in your case because I have walked in your shoes, but managed to pull my life together somehow.

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Yes I get angry sometimes when others say me something.. yes there is difference in my behaviour in home and outside...

Sometimes I feel there is someone inside me who is destroying me.. like what ever I decide I get confused whether to do it or not.. and Also now I have no motivation at all... I just want to run away any new place where no one knows me... I also feel guilty on little things.. and I have no peace of mind...