For all the members

[imran bakht]

One day when all of us will get old

and won't be able to see and hear properly

and when people will get bored from our company

at that time you will just close your eyes for a moment

and try to recall your past

that how you enjoyed with your friends

when you cheated your fellows and your teachers

fought with friends without any reason

your face and eyes will be full of tears

And suddenly a drop will fall on your hand

And that time you will come to know what friends really are?

Most of our friends will be dead

And most of them will be in your condition

SO

Enjoy this time
Always try to be fair, sincere and honest with each and every one.


DEDICATED TO ALL THE FORUM MEMBERS

[Waqar Abro]

You have broached a good topic.

No doubt ,time is passing very fast, and we all are getting older day by day.

Anyhow, The last para in which you have suggested to everyone to be sincere and loving ,is the heart of your context which compelled me to write this post.

Good job brother
keep it up

Regards

[Sociologist PU]

Yes, we are getting old and some of my friends have already left this world for never to return.
I am waiting for their phone call, which they used to make on Eid days for saying eid mubarak, but the phone will not ring. I am missing the good old days when we used to have outing togather, sitting in a park discussing things and sharing laugh, enjoying dinner with them and later chewing "pan" and strolling on the Mall from Regal Chowk to Lawrence Garden.

The poster above have rightly said that we should enjoy this time fully with our friends as this time will never return. Only the memories will be with us when we get old. Sweet memories of the bygone days.

[Maha Khan]

Dear!these days,everbody is so busy in his/her Life...nobody has enough time to remember others...jub logun k pass abhi yad kerne k lie time nhi to old age mein kia kerain ge....you wrote "Always try to be fair,sincere and honest with each and everyone"...then dear log apki sincerity ka bhi wrong meaning laite hain aaj kul...what one should do in these circumstances...?
Regards

[redmax]

True. I have become passionately addicted to this forum. I know many others would have a similar feeling.

Originally Posted by Sociologist PU

we are getting old and some of my friends have already left this world for never to return.

May their souls rest in peace in their eternal abodes. (Ameen)

Originally Posted by Maha Khan

dear log apki sincerity ka bhi wrong meaning laite hain aaj kul...what one should do in these circumstances...?

I remember a hadith which I would like to share that may answer this.

The Prophet (P.B.U.H) said,
"If someone throws thorns in your path, you should still lay flowers in his/her path. On the day of judgment, he/she will have the reward of thorns, and you'll have the reward of flowers."


I would beseech everyone that do good to people in whatever capacity you can. In the end, it will be between you, your deeds and the Lord.

[Maha Khan]

Originally Posted by redmax

I remember a hadith which I would like to share that may answer this.

The Prophet (P.B.U.H) said,
"If someone throws thorns in your path, you should still lay flowers in his/her path. On the day of judgment, he/she will have the reward of thorns, and you'll have the reward of flowers."


I would beseech everyone that do good to people in whatever capacity you can. In the end, it will be between you, your deeds and the Lord.

Dear!you are very right..but Holy Prophet also said"Momin aik Sorakh se do bar nhi dasa jata"......ager koi hamari sincerity ka wrong meaning le then what should be our behavior towards him/her???we are not living in utopia but in a real and bitter world,where our dearest friends only used to compete us..how can one remain fair,sincere with him/her???
Regards

[Arain007]

Originally Posted by Maha Khan

Dear!you are very right..but Holy Prophet also said"Momin aik Sorakh se do bar nhi dasa jata"......ager koi hamari sincerity ka wrong meaning le then what should be our behavior towards him/her???we are not living in utopia but in a real and bitter world,where our dearest friends only used to compete us..how can one remain fair,sincere with him/her???
Regards

Yes this is a bitter world. But you should remain sincere with others. Don't think of bad behavior of your friends. You will be rewarded at the Day of Judgment.
As the life is the name of Patience and Tolerance. So always be good to others no matter what are the circumstances.

[mtariqafridi@yahoo.com]

All opinions are good; What i think Human beings should be like one body as; if one part is in a trouble; the remaining should feel it.We cant dwell alone,we cant survive alone,we need people in different ways whether in Good or bad Ages.So keeping all these circumstances in mind one shoud not forget to be sincere,Honest and fair.As you so,so shall you reap.
@Whatever our lives are,the main point we should keep in mind is to prepare ourselves for the day of judgement.

[Islaw Khan]

Imran Bakht, Very true.

a couple of days back I was reading a column of javed Ch: moom kay Kaghaz, a part of it was about Khushi.....happiness. He pointed out that with passage of time we are restricting our happiness. jab hum bachy hotay thay tho choti choti baatoon se khushi milti the......
2 rupay ka note hamary ley sab kuch hota, eid p new joothay itnay pyaray lagthay ki raat ko sirhany rakhty, mamooon kay ghar jana hamara barra tour hota, fyng coach ya bus me seat milti thu aisa lagta jaisy dunya me hum se azeem koi nahee waghaira waghaira,

aaj hum lakhoon kay malik hay magr wo maza nahee jo 2 rupay k note ka tha, itnay joothay hotay hain ki eid ko yaad bhee nahee rehta ki new khareedain,
kitnay saal hogay hain maamon kay ghar nahee gya, me thu itna masroof tha ki uski death hogayee awr me dua p b nahee gya....achi se achi car me aaj bait thay hai magar sukoon naheee.......

waja ye hai ki hum ne khud apni khushyaan ignore kar rakhi hain, abhee b hee hum aisee choti choti baathoon se khushyaan le sakthay hain, apnay reshta daroo ka visit, apnay friends kay saath time guzarna, choti barri parties arrange karna, etc etc.

ye sach hay jab hum boorray ho jaingay, thu nawjawan apnay kaamoon me busy hongay awr hum kisi side p baitay soch thay rahaingy kuch. agr bachpan awr jawani JEE kar guzari haythu os din waheee khubsoorat yaadain humari saathi hongi. Humara waqt inhee yaadoon kay sahary guzarta rahay ga,

discussion dosri taraf ja rahai thee....jabki asal topic kuch yahee hai. Dunaya me achay buray sab mawjood hain, awr yahee thu dunya kay rang hain, achay bura, khushi ghum, roshni, andhera etc.

Q na hum apni taraf se acha rahay baqi dunya jo jarain usko enjoy karthay rahay, apnay rishtoon ki paasdari karain.

This is a virtual world indeed, but especially this forum mean alot to me. i am associated with this since 2007, i saw some sweet faces here and also some dark sides. but I am happy that i am with those sweet and gentle faces i respect all the members and management and some are my very good friends.

Dil chahtha hay sab members kay ley ik party arrange karooon magr phir baat wahi aathee hay ki hay hum sab kitnay busy hain. Agr koi saath de awr help kary aise koi party arrange karnay me thu buhut maza ayega.

regards

islah_G...

[Abdussamad Chaudhary]

Originally Posted by Maha Khan

Dear!these days,everbody is so busy in his/her Life...nobody has enough time to remember others...jub logun k pass abhi yad kerne k lie time nhi to old age mein kia kerain ge....you wrote "Always try to be fair,sincere and honest with each and everyone"...then dear log apki sincerity ka bhi wrong meaning laite hain aaj kul...what one should do in these circumstances...?
Regards

yar! Mujhe to aj kal ek banda bohat yad aa raha hai, pta ni main itna busy ho k b busy ni hn. ;~)
Kher rat ko bistar par neend se chandd lamhay pehle to koi ni busy hota Mahi Je. Aor tb he koi aisi yad aa jati hai k phr neend nahi aati.