Rejection!!!

[spiritual pace]

AoA to all...
Do din say sab ko suna or dekha, or akhir kaar jab yeh bhi sun lia k " humari zindagi ka maksad khatam hugya" or "it is end of our life"..then i decided to log in..let me start with my own self...
Matric ma top30 ma honay k bawajud pesh k sab say best college ma admission nahi mila, in fact kisi bhi achy college ma nhi mil saka (because mujy time laga apnay parents ko convince karnay mai k mujy science nahi literature parhna hai agay) so i was late,isi liy aik aam say college say bgair teachers k parha or finally entry test top kar k university challi gai..
Her semester ma top kia, or final mai 1 mark say Gold medal say reh gai...
university kay 2 months baad hi date fix hoi, apparently every thing was ok, he was an army officer an indeed a very nice man. but engagement say just 5 days phly hi rishta khatam hugya, cos mery parents pay baki family ka pressure tha k that his family is not equal to our syed n gillani family...
These are only three examples from my life, my whole life is full of surprises..
many hamesha manzil ko apny boht paas aa ker dur jaty dekha hai, phir bhi kabhi nahi socha, IT IS END OF MY LIFE. i know jab hum asi situation mai hoty hai jismay iswakt app may say boht saray log hai to humary dil o dimagh ma boht sary sawal hotay hai. Dont put these questions before anyone just go and open world's greatest book, (HOLY QURAN). believe me you will find each and every answer,waiting for you there..
only one of them is,"AUR AJAB NAHI AIK CHEEZ TUM KO BURI LAGAY AUR WO TUMHARY HAQ MAI BEHTAR HO, AUR AJAB NAHI AIK CHEEZ TUM KO BHALI LAGAY OR WO TUMHARAY HAQ MAI BURI HU. AUR ALLAH JANTA HAI TUM NAHI JANTAY"(Al-bakra:215)
cheer up guys life never stops it goes on..ALLAH nay humary liy best rakha hota hai bas wo azmata hai or hum hai k haar maan jaty hai.. I took my setbacks as oppurtunities or just 24 saal ki umer ma peshawar k usi best college ma lectureship mil gai jaha life k start mai rejection mili..or mery batch k gold medalist aj bhi jobless hai..
i know its very difficult time but think for a moment apki failure pay ap ka bad jis jo sab say ziada dukh huga wo hai apki mother, unki sincerity or piyar mai koi shak nahi to phir us HASTI pay trust q nahi jo 70 maao say ziada piyar karnay wala hai!!!
so no tears, no fears..people who had last chance just WAIT and WATCH, ALLah is definitely best for you...i bet you.
will end this looooong speech with beautiful words of Helen Keller, when he says,"when one door of happiness closes, another opens;but often we look so long at the closed door that we donot see the one whih has been opened for us"
stay blessed

[Mehwish Pervez]

Originally Posted by spiritual pace

AoA to all...
Do din say sab ko suna or dekha, or akhir kaar jab yeh bhi sun lia k " humari zindagi ka maksad khatam hugya" or "it is end of our life"..then i decided to log in..let me start with my own self...
Matric ma top30 ma honay k bawajud pesh k sab say best college ma admission nahi mila, in fact kisi bhi achy college ma nhi mil saka (because mujy time laga apnay parents ko convince karnay mai k mujy science nahi literature parhna hai agay) so i was late,isi liy aik aam say college say bgair teachers k parha or finally entry test top kar k university challi gai..
Her semester ma top kia, or final mai 1 mark say Gold medal say reh gai...
university kay 2 months baad hi date fix hoi, apparently every thing was ok, he was an army officer an indeed a very nice man. but engagement say just 5 days phly hi rishta khatam hugya, cos mery parents pay baki family ka pressure tha k that his family is not equal to our syed n gillani family...
These are only three examples from my life, my whole life is full of surprises..
many hamesha manzil ko apny boht paas aa ker dur jaty dekha hai, phir bhi kabhi nahi socha, IT IS END OF MY LIFE. i know jab hum asi situation mai hoty hai jismay iswakt app may say boht saray log hai to humary dil o dimagh ma boht sary sawal hotay hai. Dont put these questions before anyone just go and open world's greatest book, (HOLY QURAN). believe me you will find each and every answer,waiting for you there..
only one of them is,"AUR AJAB NAHI AIK CHEEZ TUM KO BURI LAGAY AUR WO TUMHARY HAQ MAI BEHTAR HO, AUR AJAB NAHI AIK CHEEZ TUM KO BHALI LAGAY OR WO TUMHARAY HAQ MAI BURI HU. AUR ALLAH JANTA HAI TUM NAHI JANTAY"(Al-bakra:215)
cheer up guys life never stops it goes on..ALLAH nay humary liy best rakha hota hai bas wo azmata hai or hum hai k haar maan jaty hai.. I took my setbacks as oppurtunities or just 24 saal ki umer ma peshawar k usi best college ma lectureship mil gai jaha life k start mai rejection mili..or mery batch k gold medalist aj bhi jobless hai..
i know its very difficult time but think for a moment apki failure pay ap ka bad jis jo sab say ziada dukh huga wo hai apki mother, unki sincerity or piyar mai koi shak nahi to phir us HASTI pay trust q nahi jo 70 maao say ziada piyar karnay wala hai!!!
so no tears, no fears..people who had last chance just WAIT and WATCH, ALLah is definitely best for you...i bet you.
will end this looooong speech with beautiful words of Helen Keller, when he says,"when one door of happiness closes, another opens;but often we look so long at the closed door that we donot see the one whih has been opened for us"
stay blessed

Thanks you so much spiritual: )
Yes, Life must goes on. . .
Time acha ho ya bura guzar hi jata hai bus Allah pak nay banday ka zarf azmana hota hai.. Rab apny us banday per razi rehta hai jo us k decision per khush rhay uski raza main razi ho jaie .
Hadees e Qudsi b hai iss baray main wording khuch iss tarha hai "ay ibn e adam aik teri raza hai or aik meri raza hai ho ga wohi jo meri raza hai pas agr ton ne supurd kia khud ko jo teri raza hai to main thaka don ga us main jo teri raza hai or pir ho ga wohi jo meri raza hai"

As like you meri life b full of incidents hai but Allah ka shukar hai Azmaish b Wohi zaat deti hai to sabar, hosla or himatt b or sambhalny ki takat or her incident k bad aap or strong ho jatay ho.
Umeedain jb uski zaat say wabasta hoon to us say ziada kon hain insan ko chahnay wala wo jo khaliq hai jo shahrag se qareeb hai hamain kanta b chbhay to us dard ka asal ehsas wohi zaat kr sakti hai jis ne hamin bnaya or dard ko b. Per insan shikwa kr k roo k peet k kia btana chahta hai ?
Uski raza ki tasleemat hi sakoon qalab hai.