I got mixed feelings for "Call for Change", there is no rule of gender in love, if you've get controlled of yourself, that's really great and appreciable, but initial days for Amaghaan are really tough though!
I'll advise, not to listen songs and don't read poetry, they will disturb your soul, get busy as much as you can, studies, friends, books, fun, take some vacations from routine life, it works
No match of first love yet found in this world, some may differ :p
Regards,