“Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn't it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses, you build up a whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life...You give them a piece of you. They didn't ask for it. They did something dumb one day, like kiss you or smile at you, and then your life isn't your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like 'maybe we should be just friends' turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It's a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. I hate love.”

Aisa tou houta hai aisay kaamon mein. . Time is a good healer which will make you strong enough to forget her.

Regards,

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When you try, you risk failure. When you don’t try, you ensure it.

i totally and completely agree with you armghaan, I HATE LOVE MORE THAN ANYTHING IN THIS WORLD.

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"The longer I live the more I see that I am never wrong about anything, and that all the pains that I have so humbly taken to verify my notions have only wasted my time."

Well Armghan definitely the time is the best healer of deepest of wounds so buddy......But can anybody tell how to fall in love I have tried utmost to do so but so far failed in every attempt

Regards,

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It's lack of faith that makes people afraid of meeting challenges, and I believe in myself!!!!

muhabat uss say kro jo hameesha say ha aur hameesha rhay ga,Jo khaliq,malik ,rab-a-kainat ha,Jis pay Husan ki inteha ha ....

May intehai ishq hon, tu intehai husan
Dekhay mujhay k koi tamasha kray tujhay

bs aik dafa , siraf aik ..... uss say Ishq kr k tho dekh .

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Forget safety.Live where you fear to live.Destroy your reputation.Be notorious

u r rite bro ... bt at the moment pinchin alot

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tu usay apni tmanaon ka markz na bana..!!
chand to harjai ha har ghar main utar jata hai.....

@Armghan ya mhubt wagaira kuch nai hota...it is just affiliation
u spend time with some one , u start thinking about that person , u like some traits of his or her personality and u feel like it is love and the other person exploit ur feelings .
Don't waste ur sacred feeling for sm1 who doesn't deserve it. Don't waste urself for other who even don't bother u . they are least concerned about u and don't know what the hell u r going through.
Preserve ur feeling for that person who will be urz forever , who will be ur life partner and then life would be beautiful. Coz ur feelings would matter for her ok
And u know what time is the best healer. Few months back i have been through this hell but then realized that there are many other persons who are connected with me and i have to live for those who love me.
Aik bar ya glati main bi kr chuki hoon, but i learned a lot form it. Hope ap bi kuch seekho gay r khud ko waste nai kro gay,In fact take it as a challenge. Show that person that u can live.

Agar mery jaisi larki smbhal skti hay tou ap tou bhot brave ho gay ...u r a guy , a strong person han . Allah bless u and concentrate on ur studies ok

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Sangdil Riwajoon ki ya Imart-e-Kohna Toot bhi Tou Skti hay
Yeh Aseer Sehzadi Choot bhi tou Skti hay

whole identity gets shattered.

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tu usay apni tmanaon ka markz na bana..!!
chand to harjai ha har ghar main utar jata hai.....

kuo ???
pta hay mujay lgta tha k main sans bhi nai lay sakoon gi. Main sari sari rat rooti thi
Main apnay parents k pas nai rehti ..mera dil krta tha k main apni Maan ko sb btaioon ...nai bta skti thi coz mujh say bhot pyar krti hain kbi apni beti ko is halat main nai dakh sktin.
Main nay khud ko apni Maan ki waja say smbhala ...kuo aik insan k liya hm apnnon ko dukh dain
R wasiy bi payr phir mil jay ga lakin SELF RESPECT kbi nai milay gi dubara . Live ur life with dignity . Be a man yar

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Sangdil Riwajoon ki ya Imart-e-Kohna Toot bhi Tou Skti hay
Yeh Aseer Sehzadi Choot bhi tou Skti hay

I got mixed feelings for "Call for Change", there is no rule of gender in love, if you've get controlled of yourself, that's really great and appreciable, but initial days for Amaghaan are really tough though!

I'll advise, not to listen songs and don't read poetry, they will disturb your soul, get busy as much as you can, studies, friends, books, fun, take some vacations from routine life, it works

No match of first love yet found in this world, some may differ :p

Regards,

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'Never think that God's delays are God's denials. Hold on; hold fast; hold out. Patience is genius!