Monday, February 14, 2011
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Originally Posted by mhmmdkashif
Mujhe commixing of genders ke muamle main jo ulema kee baaten hain in main thori confusion hai. Main ulema kee baatoon ko sirey se reject nahin karta, magar roohani tor pe kaha jaata hai ke kis insaan ko duniya main aana hai, woh kahan paida hoga, us ke parents kon honge, kon kon se couples duniya main banen ge waghera yeh sab cheezen Allah (SWT) ne pehle se te kee hui hain. Jab ke dunyavi tor pe yeh muamlat jis tarah se ho sakte hain us muamle main ulema kaa nazariya behad sakht hai aur woh yahan tak kehte hain ke "jins-e-mukhalif" ko aik nazar parne ke baad doosri baar dekhna tak haram aur "daira-e-islam" se ikhraj ke nazdeek gunah hai . Ab agar dekhna tak gunah hai to yeh sab jo Allah (SAW) ne pehle se te kiya hua hai woh kis tarah khush asloobi se mumkin ho sake gaa??
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Yeh sab shadi k baad mumkin husaky ga like our forefathers did. Magar ap apni pasand se shadi karke bi parent ban saktay hain by following moral obligations set by our Deen. (Its quite simple).
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