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Originally Posted by ali emraan
@usman khalid
thnx for your encouraging statement. me too had to suffer from the same kind of obstacles.
in 2005 i left B.E. ENGINEERING (ELECTRONICS) in 3rd professional. and did b.a. In 2008 i appeared in css exams. got prepared myself in 42 days. and scored 579 marks with all papers passed.so, that attempt brought a bit disappointment.
next time i appeared in 2010.unfortunately suffered from food poisoning just one day before the ESSAY PAPER. scored 598 in written. but low scoring trend in URDU, INDO-PK HISTORY and JOURNALISM,PUBLIC AD. brought catastrophe.
also i have a pms attempt on record (2009) with 588 marks in written.
so, a series of failures in all walks have inked dark lines in my life.
Now, i am having no job, career and success in life.
still, appearing in PMS 2012 with last hope to do something.
still waiting for my day.
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After reading your story one can say that there are some unknown faultlines in your academic career which you are not able to identify. For example most of the time you are short of few marks from your successful goal. I think if you invest some time in analyzing where u went wrong u will definitely get productive results. Always rememember that every person has flaws even the toppers have. They too are common people but they become special only after realizing their strengths and weaknesses. What they do is that They try to strengthen their strenghts and improve their weaknesses. The more you go through trial test the more you become strong.
There are few effective suggestions which will definitely help you.
Bertrand Russell said "Hope and apprehension are equally important but hope is more likely to be beneficial therefore I continue to hope....".
1-Try to be realistic but optimistic because pessimism cannot give you anything except distress. Its possible that optimism can give you something.
2-Try to look at beautiful aspects of your life. Every person has beautiful qualities, what he needs is beautiful insight to look at.
3-Love others and you will be loved.
4-Always be thankful of whatever you have.
5-Try to be a silent believer and you will automatically become articulate speaker.
6-Always pray because prayers are always heard and answered.
7-Always look at the people who are less privileged than you and try to learn lessons from them.
8-Always read because all leaders are not readers but all readers are leaders.
Read whatever fascinates you. Quran is the fabulous book to read. I suggest you to recite quranic verses daily it will throw away all curses in your life.
Poet once said
Flowers have sweet smell
Grass has cheering look
Distress is often runaway
When you have your own book
Wide reading stimulates thinking process and widens your scope of understanding life and its peculiarities. and it will definitely bring success in your life.
9-Always get inspiration from nature.
10- Try to be self-introspector. The greatest and best advisor resides in you. YOU only have to wake him up.Once he is awake you will be able to conquer
everything.
11-Hard work always pays off. Just look at the living example of Usman Khalid.
So never give up.
Anton Chekhov said "Don't tell me that moon is shining, show me the glint of light on broken glass"
12-Do not take these words as impractical. Read it, concentrate on it and then work on it.
13- After adopting these advices you be will be surely successful, progressive and enlightened.The winds and waves will be in your side. THE CONDITION IS THAT YOU SHOULD FOLLOW THE ABOVE MENTIONED SUGGESTIONS.
14-Good luck and have a bright future.
Many many congratulations to Usman Khalid for his brilliant struggle and brilliant result. May Allah give you more succeses like this.