O my dear one Wasiq, you should rather not allege me to be creating panic here. I didn't get personal and expect you not to get personal either, talk generally. If you close your eyes to the impending distastefulness, it will not take the distastefulness away from you. The best is to be informed of it beforehand and prepare yourself/make up your mind accordingly. Pushing problems under the rug and pretending they are disappeared is absolute stupidity, one should rather discuss the problems and suggest solutions to them than turning a blind eye to them just because you don't like them.