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Originally Posted by mjkhan View Post
Respected Mam,

I dont know how to put this question down however let me try, what things to see in your life partner according to you?How do we know that yeah she is the one i want to marry..How to make this difficult decision?

Actually the question if for you and its answer is for me.
In arranged marriages, where one is not allowed to talk to one another, you cannot judge. But if you are looking for someone, if you already know someone or if you get the chance to communicate, look for flexibility, compromising nature, sensibility and compassion. With flexibility, one can avoid all bad situations. With compromise, one can survive in all situations. With sensibility comes maturity and understanding and a compassionate person is always loving, caring, loyal and considerate. Both, husband and wife, must have these traits to live a happy and contented life. Give respect, have respect. Never go for beauty; never go for social status.
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