This is the post I went for every comment. Though I am a junior member but still admiring you from a very first day of mine here. And its all just because of your services to this forum. To me you are best than all CSP , because all of them are for their own sake and they don't stay on thread but you are the one who is actually preparing persons for CSS. Admittedly, I am not exaggerating, majority of CSP officers actually used this forum. Right now don't have any question as you have already diversified your personality by answering members questions. but can ask in future I salute you and our nation will also need people like you. please don't go any where. There must be a separate corner for you on this thread even after retirement. even if you don't stay on forum ,doesno't matter. but still we want you on this thread every time.

Shelley.

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Respected Mam,

I dont know how to put this question down however let me try, what things to see in your life partner according to you?How do we know that yeah she is the one i want to marry..How to make this difficult decision?

Actually the question if for you and its answer is for me.

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In arranged marriages, where one is not allowed to talk to one another, you cannot judge. But if you are looking for someone, if you already know someone or if you get the chance to communicate, look for flexibility, compromising nature, sensibility and compassion. With flexibility, one can avoid all bad situations. With compromise, one can survive in all situations. With sensibility comes maturity and understanding and a compassionate person is always loving, caring, loyal and considerate. Both, husband and wife, must have these traits to live a happy and contented life. Give respect, have respect. Never go for beauty; never go for social status.

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It's extremely delightful to read this thread!

I wasn't expecting you to spill out this much information about yourself but you really seem to be in a good mood. Anyhow, my question is which is the best compliment you ever received (that you remember to-date)?

"You describe an irrepressible 'n' resilient Panache in both manner and outlook."

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Wow! That makes me even more curious to see you. You remind me of my most fav teacher. She was my English teacher in grade 8 and held a Masters degree in English from PU. To date, I can't forget her personality and idealise her the most.

Can't we girls see you somehow please?!

It's just a compliment, not necessarily true.

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one question is from my side for you, Island queen,
Are you Ahl-e-Tasheeh
if you don't want to answer it no problem.... its ok...

I am not.

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