Originally Posted by Daisy

It would be Sheer Injustice with that Female! To force woman to earn and enjoy her earnings is one of the many causes that invites Revolt, Abuse, Violence and Fierceness in the Society! Such males exclude themselves from the circle of “Kind Rulers”. They prove that they are Failures and Losers. They can’t be termed as Strong males of Society because they fail to fulfil their very main responsibility to earn and protect their families.
As stated by Our Beloved Prophet (May Peace Be Upon Him)“The woman is like a rib, if you try to straighten it, you will break it.” The rib is bent in its make and not straight, and it serves best its purpose in the state in which it is created, and so of the woman it is said that being like a rib she serves her purpose best in the state in which she has been created; to straighten her, i.e., to make her work just as the man pleases, or to try to make her possess the sterner male qualities of man, is to break her down.
Such men should not expect a happy and contented life with a broken partner…..

Originally Posted by Daisy

Love, Kindness, Patience, Discussion, and Compromise by both parties is the best way to solve all the issues. Men in no way are allowed to use any kind of violence or right to abuse or torture them physically and emotionally…Women must be treated with dignity otherwise men who resort to violence against them are simply below the level of humanity.

Originally Posted by Daisy

Look! it must be clear that the difference in authority in the marital relationship is not indicative of a difference of worth. So we should not Mix Authority with Basic Rights. Authority increase Responsibility of Husband, Its not like that it Reduce the Rights of Wife!
If she is not willing to spend her life with that man she is given all the authority to go for Separation. But this Solution should be the Extreme Option only! First of all both parties should negotiate matters with Discussions by involving third parties in between and give some time to each other. No sensible person would like to break his home unless there are extreme causes.

Originally Posted by Daisy

But women are Naturally more Patient as compared to Men. They have God Gifted Tolerance Power! The temperament of man differs from that of woman in one respect. Man is Naturally stern and harsh,

Originally Posted by Daisy

therefore largely unyielding; it was necessary that he should be so, so that he might be able to face the hard struggles of life.

Originally Posted by Daisy

Well Take the Example of This World! We all are sent in this world where we are free to live our life the way we wish. BUT Promise of Secure and Pleasant Life is only with Those people who obey their Lord! Obedience is not an easy task! But Its Reward is Extremely Pleasant. Those who don’t obey, Life does not cease for them, but they are not guaranteed with Inner peace of heart and Secured future, neither in this life nor in the life afterwards. Those who Can’t Obey their Lord who loves more than 70 mothers don’t deserve any guarantee of peace and happiness. Isn’t it justifiable? It IS.

Originally Posted by Daisy

Obedience is not Slavery, it’s a Hidden empire. Had Obedience been such a “bad act”, as assumed by many, then why Our Perfect religion has instructed us to Obey Our Lord, Our Parents, Teachers, and Elders. Billions of examples around need an observer eye only!

Originally Posted by Daisy

Since men are guardians and maintainers of their wives, they must have some authority to make decisions, for a husband cannot be an effective guardian or maintainer of his wife without having some decision-making authority. And whenever there is legitimate decision-making authority on one side, there is a legitimate necessity for obedience from the other.

Originally Posted by Daisy

Give and Take is beauty and Secret of a Balanced Life. Why to feel need to curtail this?? E.g. in the Sacred Relation of Friendship, You give Love and Care to your friend with pure heart, Trust him. Naturally your friend will give you respect from core of heart and feel good to spend his time and share his feelings with you without any fears. What’s bad in that? Do Good Have Good and enjoy the Essence of Positive Actions with positive Reactions!