You have already apologised but I do want to say a few words.
First of all its a very narrow thinking that if a person ask a female for email its seen as objectionable but if its the other way around its perfectly alright. I have seen female members asking more for email rather than male.
I do have many problems with how the cssforum works it has flaws of epic proportions as compared to the other forums but one has to do so with the resources available. There is no PM option on cssforum (personal message) which is absolutely crucial for forums as such. There is no editing options of a post. Once a post has been made you lose the editing capability after an hour.

Coming back to asking for emails. Even if one do ask for an email ID what is wrong with that. How can you precieve what are his intensions. Anyone who have joined this forum at sometime was a newbie/stranger. The amount of information excahnge in 2 minutes online voice conversation may take days if done same in the froum. The amount and with the promptness with which the queries get answered over a phone/fb/Skype/whatsapp/physical world Interaction is much much higher. If a respactable female feels harrased by some person she can complain to the mods with concrete proofs and ban the person.

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