Originally Posted by aniya warraich

What reality do you want people to accept? That she committed suicide or that CSPs can commit suicide? These two are very different things!

I know her more than anyone commenting over here. We, as a nation, have this weird and disturbing habit of commenting on the matters that we have least concern with. Whether she committed suicide or not, is none of anyone's matter of concern I must say. Moreover, the ones who knew her, know this for a fact that she wouldn't do that.

All that matters is that this country lost a very honest and competent officer who had an aim to rebuild, reform and develop this country... and that too without the hope of help from any quarter or reliance on anyone else.

However, it shouldn't go without saying that our media groups are comprised of a bunch of nincompoops. 20 mins after an officer's death, it was labeled as a suicide. In these 20 mins even her mother hadn't been informed that she had lost her daughter. The way her mother was informed about it, is another story of irresponsibility of the authorities, which obviously no one talks about for reasons well comprehensible!

For the ones who don't know, a Civil servant's life or death isn't public property. No one can comment or publish any news regarding it without proper permission from the concerned quarter. But it is the "Breaking news fever" that has gripped this country and "they" go gaga when they sniff any such news. The very same media aired the news of Mr. Jahazeb Kakar's death in a similar fashion. Multiple stories were shared on the media regarding the officer's life and service (including his last pic) with such brazen carelessness that should be a punishable offence, but unfortunately isnt. Can someone gauge the intensity of torment this causes or caused to the family, to the mother, or wife, or children of the deceased?

This has to stop!
The life and honor of a female officer is equally significant and should be protected in her life and after that. I hope people understand what I am alluding to.

The pain and sorrow of this death, however, can never be forgotten. But someday truth has to unveil Insha ALLAH and I have high hopes for that.