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(Gender Discrimination, Poor Pakistani Male, the unreported perspective)

The word Gender is mainly associated with both, male and the female counter parts but in Pakistan, the word gender discrimination is always linked with women- which seems a discrimination with the word gender itself. Pakistan is a country where anything related to a woman is not only sold and rated readily but also politicized very soon. Many of the NGOS are working here for women rights why there is none for protecting the men rights? Is there any NGO which is dedicated for men’s rights in Pakistan? Isn’t this a gender discrimination itself?
Most Pakistani women are enjoying the freedom that a women should have, they use social media and websites more than men, their cells are more pass word protected then the men and they are not demanded to necessarily reveal their password to male family members to keep an eye over them, as reported wrongly by some NGO related figures. they are working in every institution, they are teachers, doctors, office women, ministers and the queens of their homes (house wives), what else they are demanding from men by always living in complaining mode on the media about gender discrimination?

Not all but some so-called social activist women are always seen being reported and complaining about their rights in Pakistani society and always putting allegation on men holding them responsible for gender in- equality. The question is that where this equality goes when women take the privilege considering it right to sit on the seat vacated by the men in their respect?
Where this equality disappears when women break the line taking advantage of women-ship while standing in a queue paying the utility bills or in front of ATM machines?--- it does not happen in western world whose standards are fantasized by Pakistani women.
What’s the need of reserved federal and provincial quota for women despite having general quota for assembly member ships and all employments? Isn’t this all fall under the category of gender discrimination with Pakistani men?? There are several cases discriminating Pakistani men by women, who reported this discrimination about Pakistani men?
Like some Pakistani women, men are too victims of home violence. Many men have shot their self dead, due to always-complaining and demanding attitude of their wives. How many stories of women's such violence have been criticized in public or on media forums and hyped by international media? How many of us know that the Pakistani lady Sharmeen Obaid Chenoy did not pay the promised amount of money to the woman whom she casted to act in her documentary and won the Nobel prize? is Sharmeen also a man who deprived the poor woman from her promised money? Why Pakistani social lady activists or international NGOs did not report this story on media?--because an "honorable" lady was involved in this discrimination?...


Every now and then articles are seen in the newspapers regarding gender discrimination against women as these are highly rated inside the country and desired outside to defame the country internationally. Despite this, authors of such articles also grab the fame and attention to ladder their career. In fact females of Pakistan are very lucky that women as well as many males speak for their rights, its hard to find even a single woman who volunteer herself for the men rights in Pakistan- isn't it a gender discrimination too?..
True that females are exploited, they are harassed in universities and at work places, they are stared at, there social media pictures are manipulated------its very bad-------- but they are very few in numbers compared to shown in the articles. More over the women cases shown on media do not portray the real picture of the story. Hardly seen the reasons behind this exploitation are also revealed along such stories.
Women are sexually harassed , there are many cases where women are involved in seducing the teenager boys for extra marital engagements and using them for immoral purposes. Such cases are most times not reported by the victims or not hyped by the so called human activists or can’t catch the attraction of the society because in this case victim is not a woman... isn't it also a gender discrimination towards men?
Women exploit men with their beauty in interviews to get admission or employment and depriving a deserved male from his rights ...why no one has written an article about that? Isn’t it a gender discrimination with men?

Universe is running on cause and effect phenomena. No one reported that not only females, males are also exploited and manipulated by women. Women do stare but little less aggressively then some men do. Women considering staring a crime for men, why they themselves commit this crime and who will sing the song on the behalf of males? Crime is crime even it is done for a "little" while...
It is common in our society that after spending some years of combined study, promising for the life engagement and showing clear signs of emotional attachment, men as well as women flew away suddenly whenever get the better choice of life partner, leaving the other mourning for his life and this story remains unsung by media and the women rights fellows of Pakistan as a male cry does not has that much soothing impact as a woman's has... isn't it a gender discrimination with the males again??..

Never seen an article being praised, advising women the ways to avoid from such alleged exploitation referred towards the men. If women are advised to hide their bodies and avoid wearing tight clothes, women them self along with women right activists start protesting that its a gender discrimination, an attempt to refrain Pakistani women inside their homes and Pakistan is not a safe place for a working woman.

It will remain a wonder that how could a woman with an unveiled chest showing enhanced body curves, sticking jeans folded at the ends to show the half bared legs, extra tightening shirt with wide open lower neck, extra thin transparent dress revealing all the strips and their ties around, face full of make-up, open wavy hair, sticky distempered lips and painted nails can contribute in nation's progress? Or who made this all compulsory for a working woman of Pakistan? And how can such women put an allegation to men of being stared at? More over if a male begins to see a woman in that appearance, women begin to write articles that men stare at them and they are being harassed.
If one wants to becomes a show piece, show piece is to be examined deeply- why complaining then? ...


It is mostly seen that females who are reported as being harassed by the professor, often start the proceedings themselves, to approach him by getting his mobile number, frequently visiting his office to gossip for P.R and getting good grades in the exams- this is another cruel way how women exploit the men in Pakistan, treating them as for granted. Similarly some of the working women exploit their bosses with their beauty to get rapid promotions and privileges including leaving the offices earlier than the official timings.
above mentioned and much more type of men exploitation by women are never reported, this psychological exploitation against men is just like the women harassment----later is reported frequently, earlier is not bothered to consider, often----is this not a gender discrimination against men in our society?....
The people talking about gender equality, must remember that equality does not mean to share the privileges only, it then also demands to share the work, regardless the nature of the work. If men and women are equal then why not Pakistani women start working in steel mills walking here and there holding red hot iron rods in their hands? Why not Pakistani women seem unloading trucks at Pakistani streets? Why not they reap the crops, mend the shoes road side, brick the house walls, or open the gutter holes, while men do all these..........why not women right activists and renowned bloggers report this gender discrimination in Pakistan?
The fact is, Allah has created both men and women with different structures, based on their natural responsibilities and working capabilities. Men cannot be equal to women and women are not equal to men. Both have some gender based privileges and some drawback over each other. Bad culprits may be in each section, it does not mean to criticize the whole gender based on individual acts as normally seen from women side for the men on the topic of gender discrimination. So one should be happy with one’s own gender instead of blaming the other because it would be troublesome for both the genders otherwise, especially in Pakistan- because western world having so called gender equality, is badly missing their lost, family system....
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