Well my father says that if a Muslim has to succeed in this life he has to do two things....
First, respect and obey his father
and Second, recitation of Holy Quran regularly....
I think with your virtues you can control your destiny coz Allah is Great and He loves a subservient believer....

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A hero is born among a hundred, a wise man is found among a thousand, but an accomplished one might not be found even among a hundred thousand men.