Originally Posted by Nazento
if any female qualify for FSP
then what about his husband?
what about his husbnad job?
Dear, you must keep few things in mind before you finalize your group preferences:
1. If you are single, consult your parents whether the nature of an FSP office would suit you or not. Our parents know us way better than we know our own selves.
2. If you are married/engaged, talk to the guy before deciding anything. Discuss all the possibilities;
a) Is he comfortable with the idea of his wife working in unknown lands?
b) Does he realize that his wife would be meeting a lot of people once she begins her career in FSP?
c) Is he going to continue with his own career and meet his wife occasionally?
d) Is he willing to let go of his own career for the sake of living with his wife and kids?
e) What occupation would he adopt once he leaves his current job? (never ever make your man used to being idle; this would be a lethal step towards your relationship)
I have put FSP on top of my priority list BUT only after discussing the matter thoroughly with my husband. We realized that it would be a great change for our family. I know how much he hates his current job; so we decided that IF (and InshaAllah) I get allocated in FSP, he would (happily) resign from his job and start working on his Phone-review website (internet related business that can be managed from any corner of the world).
And please remember that if your husband is having some issues regarding any specific group (due to the nature of job, environment involved or any other reason), hear him out. Talk politely and ask if you two could discuss the matter in detail, by looking at all the possibilities. Still if he has issues, submit to his will. Believe me, this would be the best decision for you.
Best of Luck!!