aoa seniors
if any female qualify for FSP
then what about his husband?
what about his husbnad job?
plz comment

no affect

There are many possibilities:
He may leave his job and be at home.
He may continue his job without taking any effect.
He may continue his job with a heavy heart..
He may study hard and equalize his job with that of his partner.
He may refrain his wife to do a higher job than his..

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"So my birth was the first of all my misfortunes". (Jean Jacques Rosseou)

this is the majore problem female face when they go in FSP.

however, their husbands can continue their job while keep visiting their spouses abroad. they are provided visa as like their wives. so there wontbe any big issue to visit them wherever they go in the world. but if their wives are posted in islamabad, they can live with them without any problem.

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"pattering your life around others opinion is nothing more than slavery"

Dear set your priorities in life first then go for preferences. if u are already married or engaged to some one and know that he would not be able to move with you at your posting, rethink of Your preference, as with a disturbed family life no one can be a successful professional. If You are single, then chill and put FSP on top preference. Who knows what lies ahead.

W.S

Husband will obviously do his job.. FPSC will not facilitate him.
He can live with his spouse if both the partners work in the same city. Well said that its a question of priority over preference.

I'll mention one thing...
Men are already serving in the FSP and they are doing fairly a good job.
The actual responsibility of women is to stay at home, make their (husband's) life comfortable and train, educate and groom their children. That will make our nation. This is how women can contibute to the country's prosperity and development.

Besides, a woman's real respect and honour also lies in it.

Please don't take my comments negatively... It is a brotherly advice and everyone is free to do what they consider best for them.


Regards.

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“A Momin does not taunt, does not curse and reproach, does not indulge in obscene talking and obscene acts.” [Tirmidhi]

Wassalam

Dear, you must keep few things in mind before you finalize your group preferences:

1. If you are single, consult your parents whether the nature of an FSP office would suit you or not. Our parents know us way better than we know our own selves.

2. If you are married/engaged, talk to the guy before deciding anything. Discuss all the possibilities;
a) Is he comfortable with the idea of his wife working in unknown lands?
b) Does he realize that his wife would be meeting a lot of people once she begins her career in FSP?
c) Is he going to continue with his own career and meet his wife occasionally?
d) Is he willing to let go of his own career for the sake of living with his wife and kids?
e) What occupation would he adopt once he leaves his current job? (never ever make your man used to being idle; this would be a lethal step towards your relationship)

I have put FSP on top of my priority list BUT only after discussing the matter thoroughly with my husband. We realized that it would be a great change for our family. I know how much he hates his current job; so we decided that IF (and InshaAllah) I get allocated in FSP, he would (happily) resign from his job and start working on his Phone-review website (internet related business that can be managed from any corner of the world).

And please remember that if your husband is having some issues regarding any specific group (due to the nature of job, environment involved or any other reason), hear him out. Talk politely and ask if you two could discuss the matter in detail, by looking at all the possibilities. Still if he has issues, submit to his will. Believe me, this would be the best decision for you.

Best of Luck!!

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Valar Morghulis ~ All Men Must Die!