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CSS2010:Result Stress Management

For me ,like many others, the result of the css2010 matters a lot . I left my job 2 years ago for my goal to be a csp officer. But now I am in a very depressing condition . Exam stress was nothing as compared to the CSS result stress , for we can not do anything to know our result . This stress is so high that I can not even read the daily newspaper .What is the most effective wany to get out of this stress? :con

I am a bit like you, there is so much uncertainty that we have to deal with because it's really a big exam for most of us. The result is not too far off now... probably less than a month away, so just be patient, and also find an alternative for your career in case of any bad news ... anything is possible as far as the css result is concerned and we should be ready to embrace whatever it is. Hope you will pass.

Snake man, i have come across many cases like yours i.e. people who leave existing jobs and employment to try for CSS.Understandably, your stress would be enormous, in my case, i couldn't also bear the stress of the result, but i have started study for 2011 attempt through group study.Studying on my own was impossible because of the stress and expectations of 2010 exam, although i didn't do as well as i could have in that exam.Have a chat with a friend and start prep with him :thumbup:

[QUOTE=snake;209933]For me ,like many others, the result of the css2010 matters a lot . I left my job 2 years ago for my goal to be a csp officer. But now I am in a very depressing condition . Exam stress was nothing as compared to the CSS result stress , for we can not do anything to know our result . This stress is so high that I can not even read the daily newspaper .What is the most effective wany to get out of this stress? :con[/QUOTE]

Hello Snake :ohmy: I mean brother Snake ;)

Congrats! because you are not alone in this "hell", I mean we are all undergoing through this period of stress and strain.Like you, I burnt all my boats :) matlab ,quit my job for the sake of CSS.Currently I am treading through the valley of what they call ,Bairozgari. Sometimes my fellow friends try to depress my with their pinching jokes,at times I do think what would I do in the event I could not get through the examination.I knew that CSS is a big gamble and if I lost it I would be nowhere. But in spite of all these taunting thought and remarks I took the decision by consoling myself,gartay hain shesawar he maidan-e-Jang main.

Now I have taken the examination and it's almost the result time.I don't know about the future BUT I am confident enough that whatever will happen will happen for the best.I have put all my worries away with this thought in my mind that Our Creator is also our Sustainer,He decides better things for us and He alone know what is best for us.So why not leave things to His discretion :)

Lastly,I remind myself ,whenever any depressing thought crosses my mind that ,I can be Destroyed But not Defeated. :)

So My dear stressed fellow, don't ever lose hope .Remember you have learnt so mush during all this time and now you are more confident ,more knowledgeable ,more quick to understand things and more daring to take risks.:) There is no loss in either case.And with struggle and persistence you would surely get your destination, one day.Listen,Struggle is the meaning of LIfe..........

Chaly chalo k Wo manzil Abi nahe ayee !

Stay positive and Cool. :D

Regards
Oriental

@All

salam.i am also among the CSS-2010 aspirants.
I have faith in Allah,prayers of my parents,friends and forum members which will help me to sail successfully.My well wishes to all CSS-aspirants.I also left my job for CSS and bequeathed all my energies for it.
Well wishes and heavy prayers for all aspirants.
Thank you.

After such an optimistic and hopeful response from [B]Oriental[/B] there seems no need for getting more into this matter. However, being one of CE-2010 result awaiting members, I would be sharing my views too.

The very thought of result of CE-2010 is intimidating to me, not because I - unlike more than few sincere and devoted CSS aspirants - have not left anything for CSS, but because my efforts were not good enough to be feracious. I also have mentioned this in another thread; stating that a person like me - who was doing a Govt. job and was at the verge of completing his Masters - could never put his best, with full emphasis, in CE. But as a subborn person like I am, I went for it. With a preparation of less than two months, and that also not fulltime, I think I should not be expecting anything exceptional. Allah knows, however, the best about what is yet to come.

I am really impressed to know how serious many friends have taken this competition. Due to these very people, we still have charm and highest level of sense of competition in CSS. I wish better luck to all who have put there best and have sacrificed alot for achieving this very goal of their lives.

@snake, I think you have just taught us a way Manage Result Stress. You know by making us write our views. THats the best way, I think, to control your stress, to trim it to a minimum level or even eradicate it.

My Best Wishes to all of you people,

Regards.

[QUOTE=oriental;210097]Hello Snake :ohmy: I mean brother Snake ;)

Congrats! because you are not alone in this "hell", I mean we are all undergoing through this period of stress and strain.Like you, I burnt all my boats :) matlab ,quit my job for the sake of CSS.Currently I am treading through the valley of what they call ,Bairozgari. Sometimes my fellow friends try to depress my with their pinching jokes,at times I do think what would I do in the event I could not get through the examination.I knew that CSS is a big gamble and if I lost it I would be nowhere. But in spite of all these taunting thought and remarks I took the decision by consoling myself,gartay hain shesawar he maidan-e-Jang main.

Now I have taken the examination and it's almost the result time.I don't know about the future BUT I am confident enough that whatever will happen will happen for the best.I have put all my worries away with this thought in my mind that Our Creator is also our Sustainer,He decides better things for us and He alone know what is best for us.So why not leave things to His discretion :)

Lastly,I remind myself ,whenever any depressing thought crosses my mind that ,I can be Destroyed But not Defeated. :)

So My dear stressed fellow, don't ever lose hope .Remember you have learnt so mush during all this time and now you are more confident ,more knowledgeable ,more quick to understand things and more daring to take risks.:) There is no loss in either case.And with struggle and persistence you would surely get your destination, one day.Listen,Struggle is the meaning of LIfe..........

Chaly chalo k Wo manzil Abi nahe ayee !

Stay positive and Cool. :D

Regards
Oriental[/QUOTE]

SPOT On!!

@ Oriental: brother u wrote "chaley chalo k manzil abhi nahi ai" ............... by any means did u hear this in any speech by a commoner from 32nd common? :P

hi guys... im in .... i mean we all are in.:unsure:... waiting for exam result.... i pick up my books every day to perpare for 2011, but the anxiety levels does not allow me to study.... :wacko:
but i guess the result will come when it has to... lets pray fr ourselves, nd others... may all those candidates pass the exam who have worked hard and who deserve, may ALLAH bless us with success so we can join this service and serve our country...BETTER!!!:)