The family is a social institution that unites individuals into cooperative groups that oversees the bearing
and rearing of children. Marriage may be one of the important rituals that are instrumental in uniting
individuals. Whereas the marriage and family appear to be universal there is a global variety in this
institution. Let us look at some of the basic concepts related to family and marriage and see some global
diversity in each.
Family: A social group of two or more people, related by blood, marriage, or adoption who usually live
together. In other words it is a group of persons directly linked by kin connections, the adult members of
which assume the responsibility for caring for children.
This is a conventional definition of family. In the technologically advanced societies, today, some people
object to defining only married couples and children as “families” because it implies that everyone should
accept a single standard of moral conduct. More and more organizations are coming to recognize families of
affinity, that is people with or without legal or blood ties who feel they belong together and wish to define
themselves as a family.
Household: It consists of all people who occupy the same housing unit – a house, an apartment, or other
living arrangement.
Kinship: A social bond, based on blood, marriage, or adoption that joins individuals into families.
Connections between individuals established either through marriage or through lines of descent that
connect blood relatives (parents, siblings, children, cousins, in-laws).
Nuclear family: Two married adults living together in a household without their children. This is also called a
conjugal family.
Extended family: When close relatives other than a married couple and children live either in the same
household or in a close and continuous relationship with one another. It may include grandparents, brothers
and their wives, unmarried sisters, aunts, uncles, nephews, and cousins. It is also called a consanguine family.
Family of orientation: A family in which an individual grows up, usually born in it as well. This family is central
to a child’s socialization and orientation.
Family of procreation: Family formation by the individuals themselves. It is the family that you create through
marriage or remarriage and then procreate as well. This family is formed when a couple has their first child.
Marriage Patterns
Marriage: A legally sanctioned relationship of two or more people, usually involving economic cooperation
as well as normative sexual activity and child-bearing that people expect to be enduring. Marriage is the
appropriate context for procreation that is how the concept of illegitimacy comes in. It is a socially
approved mating arrangement – usually marked out by a ritual of some sort (wedding) indicating the
couple’s new public status.
Cultural norms, as well as laws, identify people as suitable or unsuitable marriage partners. Incest taboos prohibit
marriage between certain close relatives. Who is a close relative may vary from society to society. For
example in Pakistan the marriage between first cousins is allowed but in most of the industrialized societies
it has prohibited by law.
Endogamy: The practice of mate selection from the same social category. It limits marriage prospects to
others of the same age, race, religion, or social class.
Exogamy: The practice that mandates marriage between different social categories. It could imply an incest
taboo, which could also be transformed into written law.
Monogamy: A form of marriage joining two partners. At a time the two partners are only in “one union”. The
two partners may divorce and enter into a new union at a time, which may be referred to as serial monogamy.
This practice is mostly followed in technologically advanced societies.
Polygamy: A form of marriage uniting three or more people. It could take different forms of many unions.
Polygamy exist in three specific forms, including
Polygyny: A form of marriage uniting one male and two or more females. Islamic nations permit men up to
four wives, though they have to fulfill certain conditions.
Polyandry: A form of marriage uniting one female with two or more males. This pattern appears only rarely
(often quoted example of Tibet).
Group marriage: A group of men marrying a group of women. It is an odd situation.

Residential Patterns
Just as societies regulate mate selection, so they designate where a couple resides after marriage. In preindustrial
societies, most newly weds live with one set of parents, gaining economic assistance and economic
security in the process.
Patrilocal: A residential pattern in which a married couple lives with or near the husband’s family.
Matrilocal: A residential pattern in which a married couple lives with or near the wife’s family.
Neolocal: A residential pattern in which a married couple lives apart from the parents of both the spouses.
Patterns of Descent
Descent refers to the system by which the members of a society trace kinship over generations. Most preindustrial
societies trace kinship through only one side of the family – the father or the mother. It is also an
orderly way of passing property and other rights to the next generation.
Patrilineal: A system tracing kinship through males. Children are related to one another only through their
fathers and fathers typically pass their property on to their sons. It is mostly found in agrarian societies.
Matrilineal: A system tracing kinship through women.
Bilateral: (two sided descent) A system tracing descent through both men and women. One may come across
this system in industrial societies portraying gender equality.
Patterns of Authority
Patriarchy: A system in which authority is vested in males; male control of a society or a group. This is the
most prevalent system all over the world.
Matriarchy: Authority vested in females; female control of a society or group. True matriarchy rarely found in
history.
Egalitarian: Authority more or less equally divided between people or groups (husband and wife). In reality
patriarchy continues – typical bride takes the groom’s last name; children are given the father’s last name.

FUNCTIONS OF FAMILY

family has been considered as “The backbone of society”. At the same time the social conflict paradigm considers the family central to the operations of society, but rather than focusing on societal benefits, conflict theorists investigate how the family perpetuates social inequality. The important functions are:
1. Regulation of sexual activity. Every culture regulates sexual activity in the interest of maintaining kinship organization and property rights. One universal regulation is the incest taboo, a cultural norm forbidding sexual relations or marriage between certain kin. Precisely which kin fall within the incest taboo varies from one culture to another. Mostly marriage with close relatives like parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles, siblings, is prohibited.
The incest taboo may have medical explanations as reproduction between close relatives of any species can mentally and physically impair off springs. Yet it has social reasons. First the incest taboo minimizes sexual competition within families by restricting legitimate sexuality to spouses. Second incest taboo forces people to marry themselves outside their immediate families, which serve the purpose of integrating the larger society. Third, since kinship defines people’s rights and obligations towards each other, reproduction among close relatives would hopelessly confuse kinship ties and threaten social order.
2. Reproduction. Perhaps the only function that seems to have been left to a great extent untouched is reproduction. Without reproduction the continuation of society is at stake and the legitimate births take place only within the wedlock. Yet even this vital and inviolable function has not gone unchallenged. A prime example is the number of single women in the Western society who have children (about one third of all births in US).
3. Socialization of children. The family is the first and most influential setting for socialization.
Ideally the parents teach children to be well-integrated and participating members of society. In fact, family socialization continues throughout life cycle. Adults change within marriage, and, as any parent knows, mothers and fathers learn as much from raising their children as their children learn from them.
The conflict sociologists try to find fault with the outcome of this socialization through which there is likely to be the transmission of cultural values. There is the continuity of patriarchy, which subordinates women to men. Families therefore transform women into the sexual and economic property of men. Most wives’ earnings belong to their husbands.
4. Social placement. Parents confer their own social identity – in terms of race, ethnicity, religion, and social class – on children at birth. This fact explains the long-standing preference for birth to married parents. This is more like ascription of social status to the children,
Nevertheless, racial and ethnic categories shall persist over generations only to the degree that people marry others like themselves. Thus endogamous marriage shores up the racial and ethnic hierarchy of a society.
Conflict sociologists traced the origin of the family to the need to identify heirs so that men (especially in the higher classes) could transmit property to their sons. Families thus support the concentration of wealth and reproduce the class structure in each succeeding generation. Therefore family plays an important function in maintaining social inequality; hence it is a part and parcel of capitalism.
5. Care of the sick and elderly. Family has been a big insurance against the old age as well as during sickness. As the society moves towards the industrialization this function is likely to be taken over by institutionalized medicine and medical specialists. Care of the aged is likely to change from a family concern to a government obligation. In Pakistani society, by and large, it remains to be an important function of the family.
6. Protective function. Family provides some degree of physical, economic, and security to its members. Attack on a person is considered to be an attack
Similarly guilt and shame are equally shared by the family. People view the family the heartless world”, looking to kin for physical protection, emotional support, assistance. People living in families tend to be healthier than living alone.
7. Economic production. Prior to industrialization, the family constituted an economic team. Family members cooperated in producing what they needed to survive. When moved production from home to factory, it disrupted this family team and weakened that tied family members together. In Pakistan family still performs an important least in helping its members in establishing their careers and obtaining jobs.