Allah insan ko maal aur aulaad se aazmata hai. Yeh insan ki auqaat nahi keh wo Allah ko aazmaye. Kitni maani hai Allah ki? Zindagi main aajzi se ktini baar maatha teka hai Allah ke samnay jo aaj hum main koi yeh kehnay ki jurrat karay keh hamray pass agar yeh na raha to hum ne Ma'azAllah Allah ko nahi manna? Aap kehtay hain "It is not hopelessness". Admit or not, it is hopelessness aur yeh wohi mayoosi hai jo kuft tak lay jati hai. Aazmaish aa gai hai to istaqamat ka muzahira karain. Wo sabab bana day, to Alhumdulillah. Wo kuch wapis lay lay, to bhi Alhumdulillah. Koi is qanoon se bahir nahi hai.

yes you are right. Muslman ki condition be ajeeb hai. Agar kushi mele aur us per shukr kare to ajar milta hai agar koi gham ae aur us per sabr karte hai to be allah ki tarf se us per ajr pata hai.

es sisile main aik hadith hai agar koi pesh kare to acha hoga. I will try my self as well

Sahih Bukhari

Volume 7, Book 70, Number 544 :
Narrated by 'Aisha
(the wife of the Prophet) Allah's Apostle said, "No calamity befalls a Muslim but that Allah expiates some of his sins because of it, even though it were the prick he receives from a thorn."

Volume 7, Book 70, Number 545 :
Narrated by Abu Sa'id Al-Khudri and Abu Huraira
The Prophet said, "No fatigue, nor disease, nor sorrow, nor sadness, nor hurt, nor distress befalls a Muslim, even if it were the prick he receives from a thorn, but that Allah expiates some of his sins for that."

Volume 7, Book 70, Number 547 :
Narrated by Abu Huraira
Allah's Apostle said, "The example of a believer is that of a fresh tender plant; from whatever direction the wind comes, it bends it, but when the wind becomes quiet, it becomes straight again. Similarly, a believer is afflicted with calamities (but he remains patient till Allah removes his difficulties.) And an impious wicked person is like a pine tree which keeps hard and straight till Allah cuts (breaks) it down when He wishes."

Volume 7, Book 70, Number 548 :
Narrated by Abu Huraira
Allah's Apostle said, "If Allah wants to do good to somebody, He afflicts him with trials."

Volume 7, Book 70, Number 549 :
Narrated by Aisha
I never saw anybody suffering so much from sickness as Allah's Apostle.

Volume 7, Book 70, Number 550 :
Narrated by 'Abdullah
I visited the Prophet during his ailments and he was suffering from a high fever. I said, "You have a high fever. Is it because you will have a double reward for it?" He said, "Yes, for no Muslim is afflicted with any harm but that Allah will remove his sins as the leaves of a tree fall down."

Dear Zuhaib . Hardships come in life but how we tackle them it matters . Read below and decide yourself .
I was preparing for CE 2011 in Multan ,my chances were consecutive , in September my maternal uncle ( we have joint family ) became ill , was brought in Nishtar Multan ,after reports we came to know he was suffering from blood cancer .For six months i attended him in Multan , I could not study in the meanwhile but had to take examination . In 25 April 2011 , My uncle died . ....When result was announced i was badly failed . I grid up my lines one again , started preparing but as i was going to appear in CE 2012, My Paternal uncle became victim of serious disease , for a year long i had to attend him , Took my chance but failed .for CE 2013 i was sent to Lahore , in the meanwhile uncle's health became stable . I heard a news in Sep 2012, that his condition is bad . He was brought in Multan , dr suggested him to go in Sheikh Zaid hospital . He was brought there and i had to look after him in SZH .As they say when it rains it pours , Here i had to bear thousands of difficulties , a day was fixed for operation , ( veins near the stomach shrunk , he started vomiting blood , we took him to almost every hospital in pakistan; Agha khan karachi , Nishtar Multan , BMC Quetta , Dr Innayat Ullah Multan, finally in SZH) . Before operation i had to manage blood i knocked almost every door for blood but i don't know why people hesitated to donate blood . I went to pataiala house lahore , where thousands of student reside . I begged for blood but reply was very simple " exams are near ,else, we would have given you two units of blood ". I was upset . when he was operated 14 bottles of blood were arranged , i even did not know who donated ?, among them there was also a lady which i can not forget , he was shifted to I.C.U , in the day time i had to take class in patiala house and in night i had to take care of my uncle along with my 2 relatives . Hospital's expenses were very high , In Feb 4 2013 at 11 P.M he breathed his last . Now ,i started facing apathy of hospital administration as i had to submit 1 lac the chagres of ICU , I already have drawn what was in my account . I became helpless . Head nurse came to me thrice , " sir, if you are not going to pay the hospital debt , patient's body will not be handed over " . My heart sank mind was buzzing . I wanted to cry but i could not , no one was listening to me, i assured them i will pay your each penny . It was a time when my faith started shattering , ( we went to every tomb,shrine,mosque, peer ,prayed , bagged for uncle's health ),and now when he died just for the sake of money his body will not be given to us . I started dialing telephone numbers of my friend , used every acquaintances but who would lend me the amount ? , from every corner i listened " wait till tomorrow"( a simple excuse) , one of my friend called me and said i am bringing the amount i heard you are in need of money . He brought the amount , i paid to administration and some formal words were exchanged along with a death certificate , Finally ,we were allowed to take the body out of the hospital. I wanted to hire an ambulance , the driver started bargaining with me ( i was not in the mood of bargaining ) , " i will take 50 thousand ,you live in Balochistan ; wahan khatra hay g , pata nae rasta kaisa ho ga , 30 hazar advance lon ga ) . I had to pay i had no choice . After funeral, i rushed back to Lahore exam was going to start . But, when i took papers again my faith stumbled , My question to Allah was " Why me ? , when exam starts something ill happens to me , but i remembered the words of uncle who always said " dunia main sabat kadam r sabar loog kamyab hain jo Allah par mukamal yaqeen aur aitmad rakhtay hain ) . When result was announced i was once again declared a failed candidate . I learnt , there is Allah , who arranged blood when i was in need of ... ? my acquaintances were not in the mood of donating a single drop of blood . Who arranged money when i was in need of ? . you pray , your prayers are never rejected , but time is decided by Allah alone , as he is Aleem ,Wise,well aware . Dear, you are going through hardships and i suffered . I learnt " be calm , have patience ,trust on God "

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Hmmm Kia Keh Skta Hun Dear. Ap Dua Kerain. Alfaz Nahn Kuch B bayan Kernay ko.

Ap Nay Jo Farmaya Bajha Farmaya. Koe B tazaad ya Ikhtalaf Nahn Hai ap K alfazo'n say. Mager zindagi or kudrat ki fitrat say tou yahy sekha hai K her cheez badal ti rehti hai. Soch Badal ti Rehty hai. Halat aesay hain K na tou main Na umeed ho pata hun na e pur umeed. Suna hai Sadka denay say Zindagi Barhti hai, Dua say Taqdeer badalti hai, khairat say musebat door hoti hai, roonay say Khuda Narazgi Khtam Kerta hai. Hum nay Dua karna Nahn chorha, Sadka B kia, (Is per B ek barhi kahani hai) Khairat B ki hai, Kitna roeye hain ye Khuda e Janay. Allah k waliyu ki mazaroon per tou ro ro k duain mangi hain.
Zahir c baat hai Banda kesay Khamosh rahy, kia keray, kahan jaeye. Gurbat thi, sari duniya main hai, mainy kuch nhn kaha. Abu bemar hogaye Ilaj k liye paisay na hun tou Banda kahan Jaye. Na umeedi tou hogi na, k jab subh doctors kahain wahid ilaj yahy hai or ilaj k liye paisay na hun.

Mera Shota Bhai 3 Din ka tha doctors nay kaha tha pata nhn konsay tube main parha rahega or Ami ki operation b hoee thi, , doston say lekay mainy 30 hazar ekathy kia thy, paisay khtm hogaye tou majboran shotay bhai ko jis ka name Ghulam Gous rakha tha hum ghar lay k ae or wo is duniya main nhn raha,, us waqt main abu k sath tha or ab bhi yaad hai abu nay kaha tha, 'ghreeb hun na, apnay betay ko bacha nahn paya.''

Bus G kahan Jaien..... Dua keray ap Subh, Hum B kertay hain. Jo Pori Kainaat Chla raha hai us k agay ye choti c bemari koe maenay nhn rakhti, Allah k irady say Abu Sahatmand ho skty hain. Allah Keraingay k hojaingay. Ameen

Check your HBL A/C. Transferred some more funds.

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"Tumhary nafs ki qeemat Janat hay isy Janat say kam qeemat pey na bechna."
"Jiyo to istarh ky log tum sy milny ko tarsy; maro to istrah k log tumharee mot par royain"

The amount I am donated is around ONE LAC. No doubt it is a great help but it is very low in-front of the amount my father needs.

Is ek lac main say 3 doston nay 54K donate kiye hain. Bakiyu nay 40+. Surely, I'm very much Thankful.

I want to say, this thread has been visited by more than 2500 members. I could get 1250000 if each of them would have donated 5 hundred.

Main Phir Say Arz Kerta hun, Jis nay bee ye post dekhy hai ya dekhaga, ager ho sakay tou ap zarur help kerain jtni ap ker pain.

Thanks'

Allah humien sabar de and quawat de ..kiyun ke muskil lamhat he azmaish hooty hen .. And is se jo pass hooty hen wo drd ke rastoo ko paar kr lety ..zindage me pains hameesha hooty he mager kahani sub ke mukhtalif hooty he ..kamyab wo hooty hen jo courageous hooty he ... dear zuhaib me aap ke condition ko samjty ho . Allah ka paas sub kuch he , hum se kuch le ke hum shukar ada kr ke Allah ke qareeb ho skty hen n ager hum door jaty hen to Allah ko farq ne parta ..qk dil ke sakoon hum khoo dety hen ...

Me ne Allah ke raza me bht kuch seikha qk mujy ek baat yaad aaty he hazart Ali (R.A) ke me ne apny iradoon ke tootny me Allah ko paya.. Irado apky poory hojaen to apky raza n na ho to ALLAH ke raza ..zindage assaan nae he , mager asaan bnany ja sakty

Ek waqat tha me ne sooch me Islam se munkir ho jao , mager mujy is se mazeed pain mila ..hum rooty we sub se phly ALLAH ko yaad krty hen ...hamrey hichkiyo me , hamrey cheeks per bhty ansooo ke gawahi to ALLAH deta he n roony ke baad wo sakoon deta he ... Allah maf kry hum sub ko or seedy rasty pe chalaey .. mery life etny muskil nae tha zindage ke her qadam or her next step pe me ye sochty ho mager is dafa me ne Allah ke raza me khud ko shamil kr liya he and pains ko zindage man liya .ye accept krna ke zindage me dukh he and humary liye , isky baad soochna hoota he way out kiya he ... Problem ye nae ke ''problme'' he mager ya ke hum problem ko kistra deal krty hen

me ne apny nana jan ko marty daikkha he kistra wo dialysis krwaty krwaty jan se hath doh beth , unky znidage ke last 3 years etnay aziat naak th ke me wo aziat soch be ne skty qk wo akely reh gae th n koe un se ne bolta tha ..and drd me wo galib , meer or dosoro ko sheer prty th .. I knew mery taya ko kuch logo ne murdr kr idya paiso ke liye wo 10 lacs la re sialkot se multan ,ino ne wo pasiy hwaly ne kiye terrorist ko so he died .. bht bahdur th ... me ne apny grand fadr n mdr ko jaty daika he ye sub 2010 se 2011 me hwa ..

Hum khty he hum yeh ban jaen n wo , mager hum kabe ye nae khty humien zindage me khush rehna seikhna he ..me ne bht se kamyab treen logo ke na khush paya ... zindage me pains ke baad muskrana je zindage he

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"Wa tu izzu man-ta shaa, wa tu zillu man-ta shaa"

A request to respected members of this forum is please please please donate some money. Every member poor or rich please donate some money. Just consider it one time, if one of our near and dear were to fight for his life would we be only viewer of his/her helplessness ?? Ofcourse no.

Please help.

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